I have to vent 😪 so since my boyfriend and I aren't really talking I've been focusing my energy into being spiritual (I'm not saying for everyone has to become holy THIS IS MY OWN PERSONAL PREFERENCE) so a friend that has always wanted to be a part of my life is hanging around and taking me out to eat, shop, and enjoy this pregnancy . He wants to truly see me happy. It's funny how a person you didn't give the time of day is the person who would give you the world . He wants to go to every doctors appointment he wants to feel every kick and be there when im sick or in pain . I'm just torn because I'm scared if my babies fathers wants to come back in my life what would I do ?
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I feel the same with mine. when we made the decision to move in with his mom and his siblings since that day he's been nothing but an ass which is why I'm moving back once my son is born because I can't let him disrespect me like that and I'm the mother of his child, I don't think so.
I think God brought him into your life for a reason and your child's father out of your life for a reason. If he tries to come back id think about letting him back in......don't let your life be a revolving door.. Don't know the whole story but he shouldn't be able to pick and choose when he wants to be in your life. That's your choice not his. I hope it works out for ya girl.
I do understand but don't get it twisted he understands that I'm still guarded I don't trust anyone I'm only concerned about my baby THATS IT @PRettiladi_shan
i say protect yourself from all ends because you have to deal with the father regardless if you want to or not and your friend may want to be there for you now but what happens when the baby is actually here? Some men cant handle that. Just be observant and not gullible and keep in mind you are vulnerable so you dont want to make your friend the rebound unconsciously
I feel the same way about everything you guys are saying @supermommy016 @mypregnancy_journey @lashaunna9 I just feel like why is he acting like that he's being so mean he's so nasty to me and I'm like we've been together for 3 years and I end up pregnant and now you treat me like you never cared or loved me like wtf did I do ? 😪😪😪😪😪😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Let your old friend be there.. And deal with baby daddy when he comes to his senses that just because your pregnant doesn't mean somebody else won't step in and do his part.
if you still have love for the father of your child I wouldn't advise you moving on because you will end up picking the father of your child over anyone but if you feel like you're completely done and fed up with the father of your child then take everything slow but let the father of your child know that's what you want to do.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Been watching Seeking Sister Wives, would you do it? Share your husband? Personally I would be happy to join a family but I don’t think my partner has enough love or patience.
I need advice.
if the father of your baby has not been there for you the whole entire pregnancy... like won't text you or call you back for 6 months.
then he randomly texts you and says he doesn't want to talk or have any communication but let him know when I get admitted to the hospital to have the baby...
would you tell him?
I don't want to. I can't work , and I'm struggling really bad and he hasn't been here at all.
why does he get to live his life , and then walk into my child's life...
I definitely feel u @mypregnancy_journey luckily I live alone so I don't have to deal with anyone