I have to vent 😪 so since my boyfriend and I aren't really talking I've been focusing my energy into being spiritual (I'm not saying for everyone has to become holy THIS IS MY OWN PERSONAL PREFERENCE) so a friend that has always wanted to be a part of my life is hanging around and taking me out to eat, shop, and enjoy this pregnancy . He wants to truly see me happy. It's funny how a person you didn't give the time of day is the person who would give you the world . He wants to go to every doctors appointment he wants to feel every kick and be there when im sick or in pain . I'm just torn because I'm scared if my babies fathers wants to come back in my life what would I do ?
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I feel the same with mine. when we made the decision to move in with his mom and his siblings since that day he's been nothing but an ass which is why I'm moving back once my son is born because I can't let him disrespect me like that and I'm the mother of his child, I don't think so.
I think God brought him into your life for a reason and your child's father out of your life for a reason. If he tries to come back id think about letting him back in......don't let your life be a revolving door.. Don't know the whole story but he shouldn't be able to pick and choose when he wants to be in your life. That's your choice not his. I hope it works out for ya girl.
I do understand but don't get it twisted he understands that I'm still guarded I don't trust anyone I'm only concerned about my baby THATS IT @PRettiladi_shan
i say protect yourself from all ends because you have to deal with the father regardless if you want to or not and your friend may want to be there for you now but what happens when the baby is actually here? Some men cant handle that. Just be observant and not gullible and keep in mind you are vulnerable so you dont want to make your friend the rebound unconsciously
I feel the same way about everything you guys are saying @supermommy016 @mypregnancy_journey @lashaunna9 I just feel like why is he acting like that he's being so mean he's so nasty to me and I'm like we've been together for 3 years and I end up pregnant and now you treat me like you never cared or loved me like wtf did I do ? 😪😪😪😪😪😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Let your old friend be there.. And deal with baby daddy when he comes to his senses that just because your pregnant doesn't mean somebody else won't step in and do his part.
if you still have love for the father of your child I wouldn't advise you moving on because you will end up picking the father of your child over anyone but if you feel like you're completely done and fed up with the father of your child then take everything slow but let the father of your child know that's what you want to do.
Just take it one day at a time honey it will be okay
I definitely feel u @mypregnancy_journey luckily I live alone so I don't have to deal with anyone