So I just went through a bad break up few days ago, and he hasn't bother contacting since than. . I am 8 weeks pregnant,…

no problem hunny

@deerashley, @expectingtwins @february2016 @mam426 @meaganificent @meaganificent @ Thank you ladies , ive token every single one your advices to heart. I am going to proceed forward

yes if he wants to be in y'all life he'll come back or make some sort of contact

I went through this while pregnant with my son I choose not to contact, when my son was born he wrote me on facebook and said my son was his but that's the last I've heard of him. my son is now 3 and has never met his bio dad but has an amazing dad who's been in his life since i was pregnant. it's your choice just don't let others make it for you.

You guys can still be civil for the baby, but I wouldn't stress over him loving me. When my ex and I split it was the greatest blessing. My husband now has been there for my daughter every day since she was born and raised her as his own. She's 10 now, she knows who her father is but as far as she's concerned he's just Joe, she told him she has a daddy and didn't need another one. That's 100% his fault and it was all her decision. I never regretted leaving that door closed after he closed it on us. But I don't wanna tell you what you to do, I'm just letting ya know what worked out for me and mine... Good luck

@meaganificent, He knows I'm pregnant and all :/ but I know he mention he doesn't love me like he use too I just have a heart feeling that his friends are influenced alot in it, I haven't made any contact with him in a few days just like him. I figure if he cared he will come back if not I'll just move on and worry about my child

I was in the same position with my oldest. I did tell him I was pregnant then let any communication after that come from him. Your baby is your priority, if he doesn't want to put the baby before the friends opinion of you that's his loss. I wouldn't lose sleep over him if he's not losing any over you.

@mam426, thank you you are so right, I just never wanted to end like this. I was trying so hard for the sake of my child

honestly I don't know what to think at times, I feel like he's best friend who is a girl fills his head with so much negatively against me. and the argument was so stupid, all I asked him was that communication would be nice from time to time but he just basically said he can't give me that.

I would say no contact and move on. his loss. you and the baby deserve better anyways.

if he shows no care... I wouldn't in return