(I need to vent) As hard as everything is right now, its like everyone decides now is the time to…
(I need to vent) As hard as everything is right now, its like everyone decides now is the time to throw everything thing else at me. Living with my boyfriends parents and him is getting more difficult. They treat us like we did the worst thing in the world, and try to argue and fight with us all the time over the most little stuff. The things I am not supposed to be doing I have to do or else they will get mad. Heavy things, chemicals, stress. They always compare me to his step mom because she has been pregnant three times. This is my first child. And everyone is different. She did a lot during it. But me, I'm not her. My pregnancy so far is wonderful. But its a lot of little pains. Sickness. My doctor says I should not work cause I would stress out myself to where something could go wrong because of low blood in my body. And that's putting stress on my boyfriend. They make me seem like I did bad and throw bit bin our faces all the time. And we finally found a place but now my boyfriend wants to wait because his dad feels if he acts nice for now we will stay. We need our own area and privacy. But its messing with our relationship. And how my emotions are, they think I'm not worried about anything. But I can't complain how it is to them because they will blame the baby. And I always say. No it's my situation, not my pregnancy... But how to I just walk away from someone who is basically in the room next to me?
Gabriella·
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First, is he working!?
Second, it makes it so much harder when it's not your family and it's his.
Third, I strongly suggest you find your own place now :/
It'll just get harder once the baby is there.
Samantha Carrico·
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@justdanny18, I am in a similar situation. My fiancé and I live with his parents and have a 3mo little girl. I would try to move out before the baby comes if you can cause for me it only got harder being here after she was born, our relationship is on pieces because of all the tension in the house. You have to do what's best for your family and the stress of being in a hostile house hold while being pregnant isn't best for the baby.... Stay strong momma!!
Daniella Harper·
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Yea he is. And I know but my parents they say we still love you but its your mistake you made. And yea I know that's rude. But that's who we have for now. We been trying to get our own place and save up. But its like everytime we do someone has to take it. Ee have money saved but never enough. @gabriellamomof3
And I know that's why we argue a lot but try to brush it off. But in don't want my baby girl coming around being around it all. I want our own place so bad. But sometimes he also gets nervous and changes his mind and that another reason. I feel like its because he doesn't wanna leave his family but he needs to realize his own on happening and something need to be changed
Daniella Harper·
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@oliviasmommy0927,
Gabriella·
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Have you applied for all necessary resources? If you have to take the step without him, then you have to. If not for you, for your baby
Gabriella·
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@justdanny18,
Daniella Harper·
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I know that's what I need trying to do. The little job I have now is waitressing. It's not a busy place. But its something so I'm trying to save until then. Without them knowing. @gabriellamomof3
Gabriella·
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Good. You got this! Look into schooling too? Maybe a trade school? Make yourself self efficient.
Gabriella·
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@justdanny18,
mareesa richie·
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this is how i feel my boyfriends family is big about 8 of us living here with one restroom-.- before i found out we where pregnant we sat down and agreed One year being the top of living here any longer that gives us 1 whole year to save up. then a few weeks later i found out i was pregnant and you know i told u the stress was taking a toll on my body for working so much till like 1am. i could of stayed working and jeprodized our baby and got a place within a few months or stay home be healthy and safe and deal with living here for another year and a half. till i can go back to work. its stressful knowin its all on my bf but im making his baby inside of me it will be worth it in the end my parents gave me their old furtniture set the dresser and queen size bed etc and we moved into the back spare room that is big enough for our things and the crib that is it i waanted to have our own place so the baby can have its own room etc but god had other plans for us and as long as the baby is healthy i cant really complain
Daniella Harper·
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Yea that's what we wanted to get our things together. But now ever since we got pregnant his parents treat him like a bank account and think that will help him be grown when its not. Its putting a toll on us. So after my surgery I stay with my family even though I miss being with Lamar everyday!! But his family didn't even ask if the baby was okay or anything they kept saying nothing was wrong. And they kinda just put us down. And I have it. My parents are trying to help us though with furniture and whatever we need when we get our own place just need to find one @mareesan