Do you and your SO make decisions jointly about baby/kids? I ask because I see a lot of "it's my baby so I decide" What about your SO, do they get a say? Or because you carried the baby you know what's best and you are the decider? Not trying to offend anyone but it would be nice to know. Thanks. (:
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I think most people say that when it comes to naming the baby. I personally think the SO should have a say in everything including the name because it's their baby too(unless the babys father is a P.O.S. then it's understandable)
We both have equal say in everything but my husband always tries to lean towards my side when we have a disagreement
With my first I was single, so everything was my decision. With this one the father is around so I try to include him but he usually just agrees with everything so it's not really a big deal. As far as everyone else's opinions, while I appreciate them, I've had to tell a few people once or twice that it's my child and I make the calls. But if your SO is actively involved in the child's life, they should have some say so.
Yep we make the decisions together because granted I'm the one carrying and birthing the baby but it is a part of him too.
My husband deff gets a say. Good thing we agree on mainly everything.
me and my bf always come to an agreement when it comes to our son, I'd hate to do something he hates and he feels the same. its only fair, just because I'm carrying him doesn't make him any less of a parent.
Hubby and I make decisions together. We both made them so we both decide. I'm not any better than he is just because I carried them. He has just as much as right as I do.
I will always talk to my husband about every decision made for our son because he's the father & deserves to have a say in it.
Me and the hubs make decisions together. We talk things out and usually end up agreeing