"are you sure you're okay with me going to Nashville for the night? I noticed you've been in the…

Wow you said, he cared enough to ask. He at least wanted to make sure you were okay before he left. What else do you want?

for him to be considerate enough to stay home for once and spend some time with me. I never ask him for anything but some of his time. i'm tired of him coming home at 7 am every damn time he has a night off. I never bitch about him having friends. but in between him sleeping all the time, working, and hanging out with friends. I am completely invisible af and it's beginning to get annoying

nope he's still wearing the damn thing too. @junebaby2016

i am. and that's why I've stayed in our bedroom all day while he's been playing video games with his friends.. i'm enforcing that no one is coming the hell over here tomorrow when they all get back. i'm not putting up with being ignored for a 4th day in a row and having to clean up after all of them like I have been. my house is not parties r us. @junebaby2016

hopefully when you all's baby arrives he'll promote most of his time with you and your son. that should come first! not silly video games and "friends"

Oh I see. They don't understand we need quality time sometimes. It can feel lonely. And doing everything gets real old. I don't get how they think that's a relationship!

@preggerstone, and I give him as much freedom as he wants. it'd just be nice to have someone around for once.. ya know? I'm always by myself and it seriously just kills me.

I don't get why they do that. You would think they want to spend time with us. I've been there and we have come a long way. We got married at 21(now 26) so we realize that we never had our own life so for awhile he would just hang with his brothers or play video games all night. I finally had to have a real talk and say that we need to have some quality time sometimes for my sanity. I had to learn how to ask and sadly wish I didn't even need to! They get caught up in what they want to do and think sitting in the same room is quality time. Plus he use to work graveyard shift and that sucked! So all his time off was video games. We are better now but he still doesn't pitch in with house work that often. Still working on that. And sorta learned how to be alone. But I had a real talk the other day with him and he finally sees some things. It just takes some time for some reason. It will get better.

it's the same thing. night shifts. sleeping during the day, video games if he's awake or being with his friends. and he knows these are issues. they've always been issues even before pregnancy. that's what makes it all so crappy he had crap in check for a month then all these tools and pot heads come back into his life and now it's like the stuff we worked out went to waste @preggerstone