had a total melt down last night. my daughter woke up about 315 330. so I wrote up and went to change her and feed her and such. she screamed cried wouldn't take the bottle or her binky and kept up. so I lady her in the crib and my husband woke up and decided he would try. he did everything I did and she hushed. even downed her whole bottle! hurt my feelings... night time is my time with our daughter.... I know he wasn't trying to impose. just help. and I know she didn't do it just to hurt mommy's feelings. but I cried. then my husband sat there, at 4 in the morning, hugging me and kissing me and telling me that it makes him feel good when she wants him like that cause it means she is "putting him on the same level" as me. he kept telling me how important I am to her and that she loves me. I love my husband so much. melt down at 4am and he stays up to make me feel better.