Need to vent:
Growing up I've always wanted 3 children. Now that I'm pregnant with my first, idk about 3, but I definitely want more than one. Every time I talk to my SO he says he only wants one and can never give me a reason. When I bring it up around his mom, she says we won't be able to afford it.. He's an only child so he was very spoiled growing up. I have 4 other siblings and wasn't nearly as spoiled as he was, but I didn't suffer growing up and my parents didn't suffer financially. So I wouldn't think one more child would be financial trouble for us as long as we managed our money right.
Plus I only think he says he wants one bc of his mom. I think she scares him by everything she says. She really pisses me off!
I've definitely got my heart set on more than one kid in my future. What's meant to be will be ❤️
Let him have the first, he may change his mind! Then again, I wanted 7. but now that I am having twins, my husband says we already are gonna have one of each so no more 😒