since everyone tells me I hold my daughter too much I guess I will never Hold her unless I'm feeding her.

is it wrong to be frustrated that my daughter acts like she can't do certain things with out my help. she plays dumb a lot and I wish I could be like no girl show what you know. she acts like she can't trace or match shapes so shes ask for "mommy finger" to help her so I barely hold her hand and she magically can do it but if I dont hold her hand she just scribbles and acts like she doesnt know

the pic is how she traces when I'm "helping her" otherwise it'll just be scribbles all over the page

Holding in her on pacifier

Do you ladies agree when people say not to hold a baby often because they'll get used to being held all the time? So they'll cry until someone holds them, my LO is going to be 3 weeks and I hold her often but I don't like her crying if I put her down so I just hold her and some people tell me not to because then she'll always cry if she's put down.

Babygirl was born at 8:16am this morning. She was breathing really fast, had respiratory distress and they brought her up to the nursery to put her on oxygen and run some tests. I was only able to see her for a couple minutes, but haven't been able to hold her yet. I'm exhausted and trying to rest as much as I can so I have energy for my babygirl when I am able to hold and breastfeed her.