my boyfriends a mommas boy if she says something he's so naive and believes her ..even though she's full of shit..my boyfriend hasn't denied her lol he knows she's his..I'm saying if she didn't look just like him he might have because ppl like to talk shit

@akgx3, my husband NEVER denied my daughter once, she looks just like me ! & has his eyes and cheeks , she just vanilla complexion. but his mother always saying shit to him !

hmph, I don't blame you boo. eff that, she better figure out what's important lol

my boyfriend can NEVER deny his daughter... if she didn't look just like him he probably would because I was living in another state and came back and immediately got pregnant by him so of course ppl might assume I got pregnant while I was in another state smh ppl are assholes especially mother in laws...I don't trust my mother in law with my daughter she doesn't want to babysit..she wants to be out doing shit so she'd probably leave my daughter with someone without my consent or acknowledgement

@babybowser93, my husband has spoken to her & even stopped talking to her at one point, she hasn't said anything since than about the baby but I never want her around my baby at all! it bothers me a lot. @akgx3 pretty much 😕 ... @mango44 exactly ! my daughter is mixed , she's just dumb.. but she just won't be around my daughter until she gets her act together.

& another shot for her ignorance, sometimes a baby's melanin doesn't develop without sunlight. and it depends on their heritage. i was a white baby and didn't begin gaining pigmentation until i was a little over a month. my mom is caramel, & my dad is dark skin. but bc of my family's lineage, i was white like my grandpops for an entire month after birth & so was my brother who is dark chocolate now.

I totally understand all I can say is do what you think is best for your daughter...she's basically denying her as her grandchild if she,doesn't think it's his

@120415kittykatt, wow none of that should even matter that's a BABY she's speaking about. that pisses me right off. how uneducated can you be..😒

sounds like you might need to have a talk with your husband. he should have spoken to her when she first made any kind of comment like that.

I don't blame you like how rude can you be. if she don't think the baby is her grandchild, she needs to move around & gtf out the picture. but don't come around with that messiness about it's not his baby & he need to check. & wtf the ears gotta do w determining whether or not it's his child? lmao that's how i know she ignorant and just finding shit to say bc if she was really concerned, she would have said get a paternity test (& she'd pay for it since she THAT worried). check the ears.. smh WHET. bihh, it's not YOUR baby so relax w that shit 😒😒 ugh. in laws can be monsters.

@their.bomb.ass.mom, I hate the way my mother in law do things. she stay trying to over feed someone's child & tell them how to raise them & make me give my daughter formula when I'm strictly breastfeeding & @babybowser93 I have put my foot down plenty of times but since I was a dancer/model ... & since I'm Puerto Rican, irish, & Trini that my baby is too light 😑 . that she has to be caramel complexion like me smh .. my daughter is vanilla complexion just like my mother ..

@mango44, 😂😂😂 .. I really dislike her for saying that, our relationship is dead to me at this point .. I never want her around !

check the baby's ears? she needs to check her mouth or get it checked 👊🏽 I wouldn't leave my baby with that creep either 😾

@120415kittykatt, that is your baby not hers and shame on her for speaking about her granddaughter that way. if I was you I would put my foot down. have a real ass talk with her and if the conversation goes nowhere because she can't respect your wishes then don't let her watch her anymore. you and your baby do not need that kind of negativity!!

I don't have necessarily your problem, but I don't feel right nor have I ever let my mother in law watch my child. Just because I don't care for the way she does things.