I'm really going to be one of those moms who doesn't want anyone to hold or touch my baby 😭😭like please go wash ur hands…

we are in the very same boat lol that's how I feel don't kiss my child of the lips don't touch them with out washing your hands at least 5 times lol

@annie042, seriously I'm not going to be able to take my eyes off them, even if it's my mom or sister anyone like Idk maybe it's just how I'm feeling right now lol.

I understand like I honestly am very picky about ppl even touching my belly right now and I am honestly not wanting ppl to think my baby is going too be a show an tell like I am not going too pass him/her around for the world too see I just don't want ppl getting the wrong idear but it's my first baby and I want too him him or her out of any harms way

Ha! Me to. Her father will have to fight me for her. People can come visit in the hospital and hold her but when we are home stay out.

Yes me and you both. No ones will touch my baby unless their hands are very clean! I'm going to have a big hand sanitizer next to me.

@annie042, right!! Lol my first too and idec like if I don't want u holding my baby right now cause of how I feel than respect that shit lol😭

Lol yup no 1 under 10 holding my newborn baby at all I am just not going too have my heart drop worrying my ass off I already stress enough I don't want any stranger holding only family but trust me I'll be keeping a very close to eye lol

I feel the same way, I'm more concerned though about my in-laws holding the baby though 😒 My MIL mostly... it's not that she's dirty or anything but idk... I guess it's just with her idk what to expect lol. I don't want her crying all over him and kissing his lips because apparently that's what they do in my Hubby's family... his mom kisses him on the lips and so does his grandma and it's just weird in my opinion.

I'm not even going to my family's for Christmas because there's so many kids under the age of 10 there that I'm just gonna skip this year because my son is only a month old

@missyowl92 yea that kissing on lips is very unlikely called for an it's not good for a baby we don't know what they do an jerms they carry within there mouth I am sorry if ppl don't like it I will tell them no an they can't be upset over me an how I wsnt too do things

@fancy.shattuck I'd do the same kids always want too hold an kiss touch play with a newborn an it's sometimes too much

@annie042, I know, and being that my hubby is 24 years old... it's like really dude? You still kiss your mom and grandma on the lips? At our wedding the photographer took a picture of him kissing his mom and I told him not to have it printed... it's just weird. I'm probably going to talk to him about it and make sure he tells his family to wash their hands really good and no kissing because if I tell them they won't take it as kindly.

definitely! plus my family invites everybody they know & I don't want to be in a house with 30 other people because you never know who's sick with what

@missyowl92, @annie042 yes i feel the same way. I have a 10 year old sister and I already know my mom is going to be et ur sister hold him blah blah like okay she can sit and hold him but don't be walking around with my baby u can trip or fall like I'm not messing around with anyone family or not 😭

@missyowl92 @fancy.shattuck I agree it would be better comming from him too his family but if he font get it true an they still go for it you might have it but I hope it don't come too that you really can never tll who is sick an who is n ot flu season us serious I had it felt like I ws dying putting a baby true that not an option