Duuuudeeeeeee all the time with my mum!!!!!!! I had to cut her out of my life because she would never let ME be the parent! (Plus she would insult my parenting, and she wasn't supportive of me having my 2nd baby... So there were more reasons than that). But I would tell her I didn't want him having candy for breakfast... He would walk out of the kitchen with a few Reece's, or whatever candy my mum had. I would tell her to feed him real food and then give a treat and he knew he could refuse the food and still get the treat from her. Drove me INSANE. Plus she couldn't discipline him so he thought at 4 it was still ok to bite her because she wouldn't say no and she turned it into a game. I can't stand that 💩! ... Sorry for my rant.
I know my mom is gonna try to do that but luckily I'm not afraid to put her in her place.
my mom knows better but I know a grandma who's like this and right now she can't even talk to her grandson (he's 6) he kicks her, laughs when she tries to reprimand him etc. I just smh and say that's what you get for always going against what the mothers says.