ugh I'm so stressed right now. I just wanna cry. I have to see a different doctor until I go into…
ugh I'm so stressed right now. I just wanna cry. I have to see a different doctor until I go into labor because there's the possibility I might have to have a c section, and my doctor who I've seen throughout my pregnancy isn't an ob, but she could deliver me if I delivered vaginally. I love my doctor. but I have to been seen by this midwife at the hospital who I have heard horror stories about. she doesn't like "fat" girls, and I am a "fat" girl. I have a friend who is skinnier than me, and she had to be seen by this midwife, this woman was so mean to my friend, I'm scared she'll be worse to me. people have filed complaints before. but this woman still has a job. oh, and since my blood pressure has been high, and my feet are swelling so much, I have to do a 24 hour urine catch. ugh. I'm so not looking forward to this. I just want my doctor, and I want to have my son.
stephanie·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)
I'm sorry hun :( try to hang in there and stand your ground if you can try to be seen by a different person
Jayce Williams·
В ожидании первенца
I'm trying. she's the only available person next week. I will demand someone else after that, or I will not be going to that appointment
Samantha·
Мама двоих (8 лет, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
A midwife that has horror stories? Sad 😭 I have a midwife this time around and I have loved it. It's much more personal and I'm a "fat girl" at this point too. I just hit 200 my last check up! (I'm normally 150) and she said I'm fine, baby is healthy and that's what matters. Is there a different midwife you could see?
Jayce Williams·
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no this wpman is the only one available to see me next week, and I'm due by the end of this month. I already called the ob office and told them I will see her this once since she's the only one available, but after this they either schedule me with a real doctor up there or I will not go. I've been very reasonable until now, I have high blood pressure and there's a chance for c-section, I need the assurance that only a doctor can provide me. I want my doctor back, but she can't perform a c-section because she isn't an obgyn. if I get to deliver vaginally like I hope to she can and will be delivering my child. not this awful midwife.