Rant: this has nothing to do with me because my fiance encourages me to rest. But it is so annoying when you see people or gear about people telling pregnancy woman "they won't be able to rest when baby gets here so to get use to being tired" OUR DOCTORS TELL US TO REST AND GET EXTRA SLEEP FOR A REASON! QUIT GIVING PREGNANT WOMAN CRAP FOR WANTING TO SLEEP OR REST EXTRA, WE'RE SUPPOSE TO. yes we will be dealing with crying newborns all throughout the night but we will be doing it with a little more energy than we have now because we won't be pregnant. It is such hard work and very tiring growing another human being. some people just don't realize that. Just because we are resting and it "seems lazy" to you does not mean we will be bad mothers and not tend to our babies when they are here, pregnancy tiredness and infant care tiredness are two different things.