ok i understand how great it is to be a mommy.but can someone explain to me why these young females who have a child and not living in their own(with parents) want to have more babies.most of them don't have jobs.
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yessssssss....... like its one thing if you're just trying to get back in your feet.... but it's completely different to live off of your parents!!! even though we have our own house and our own cars, and we still actually need wic and food stamps right now until after little miss is born and I can't get a real job again... I feel bad while I'm in the wic office then I look over at a 16 year old sitting beside her mama with a toddler and pregnant talking on a brand new iPhone in clothes nicer than anything I've ever owned... it makes me sick..
My husband and I have one daughter. We adopted four more--our two nieces and two nephews--when his brother died. Then our house burned to the ground a week before Thanksgiving. But because we managed to save a bit and we both work, we are managing pretty decently. The house is being rebuilt and we are OK. I couldn't IMAGINE depending on our parents or not having our stuff squared away, and these are the things we all have to kinda prepare for anyway. We just got slammed with 3 huge events at once--our son's upcoming birth, the loss of our brother, and the inheritance of the kids.
@boogersbugsanddirt, @lillyloveless @tayek. I don't have nothing against people on WIC or receiving these types of benefits but most of these girls run to those offices but can't run and get a job.but we all fall into tough times and need help so we move back in with our parents but I'm proud to say me and my husband have our stuff together.I couldn't imagine being more children in the world without being stable.
I live with my mom, so does my boyfriend and I'm 18 but we only live with my mom because she can't afford to live on her own and the bills are cheaper on us to just split them.
I know it killed me to live with my parents during my divorce, I literally left everything in Houston. My wonderful job, my okay apartment, but nothing was more important than my boys. I came back to my home town and built it all up again. Why girls can just chill with their parents and be like, oh they pay my bills too. GET A JOB!! UGH. Then have the audacity to sit and bitch because their mom told them to clean.
I've started wondering the same thing, and then the ones around here get mad at me because my fiancé and I live in a duplex.. at least we have our own place and at least my kids have their own rooms.
They like the attention. It's easy to have tons of babies when you're not the one raising them. Also, most preggies get babied a good bit.
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏☝☝☝☝☝☝☝👏👏👏👏👏AMEN! I have no explanation.
those clothes could be from second hand stores, consignment shops, bought from buy and sell pages on Facebook. The phones could have been a gift, also bought second handly you don't know what they're going through. Let me apologize for them for not fitting your standard of "poor enough to need wic" I have nice things because it's all been bought second hand. you really shouldn't judge people with out knowing anything about their lives.