if you get the test done that is supposed to test for birth defects, they can also tell you the gender then. I found out at 17 weeks. but I've known people to find out at 12 and 13 weeks..
Your best bet is to call insurance and ask. Just to be sure. Usually it won't because it's not medically necessary but it's worth a shot. @brafordfamily22
You can get blood work also as soon as 12 weeks
I found out at 20 weeks but I know some mommies found out at 16-18 weeks :-)
I was 14 weeks!!