My friend is so inconsiderate sometimes I just turned 21 and of course can't drink and tonight is…

Not wanting to put yourself around a bunch of drunk people while pregnant doesn't make you a bad friend. Maybe you could schedule a lunch date or something just for the two of you instead.

I mean we hang out all the time and she is the babies godmother so I just expect her to understand

i personally go out with my friends and they drink but i dont drink they usually just get me water or juice and i have as much fun as they do maybe u just need to let her know that ur priority its ur baby and not the alcohol or the night out

I would be fine if it was one bar but she is planning to bar hop the whole night. Her and my fiancé both know I really don't want to go but don't care

Your not being a bad friend, your being a good mother. do what you want and what your comfortable with.

or yoi can go and have mocktails.. but idk