don't be scared hunny

@brandylemonds15, @bets

I was screaming for an epidural but glad I experienced it natural because I was already set on having an epidural because I wanted to be comfortable I guess god had different plans

Haha I bet ! C-sections are easier in a way because you know what to expect you go in and a few minutes later your baby is here vaginal birth is different they let my friend labor for almost 30 hrs it was crazy I'm so scared of being in labor for that long @bets like I'm a chicken I don't know if my body can deal

I'm have to stop talking to you @mumof2 I'm already scared of back labor and I really want to do it without an epidural because a lot of my mom friends said it messed there backs up

no don't worry :) everyone is different! I'm so scared of vaginal delivery! I guess because I got a c section with my first so I know what to expect, and I don't with vaginal it scares me loll

Oh okay !! I don't really want a c-section but if I have to get one that's fine as well I told my dr she better not try and give me one unless it's absolutely necessary ! @bets

yes I was told birth is more painful when its all back labor, and contractions are KILLERS @mumof2

my dilation went so fast I called for epidural at 6-7cm dilated once the man get there 30 mins later I was ready to push I started crying yelling I can't do this without an epidural please don't tell me you can't give it to me I'm in soooo much pain hahaha@brandylemonds15 @bets so no I couldn't get one because it was too late. all of this shit I went through had me scarred. I really thought I was about to die. the whole room was spinning my mom was helping me but hubby was far in the corner and didn't even want to come close to me. I was screaming telling the drs I don't want to do this anymore I almost broke the side of the bed where you controll it hahahaha that morning was traumatizing lol

@mumof2, I know exactly how you feel now! I didn't know false labor is this painful too. I rather have abdominal pain than back pain, I hate it lol maybe the same happens to me & she comes before!

no you can still deliver normal :) only some cases those babies need to be born via c section. but not all :)

@mumof2,

Oh goodness ! She was ready to make her grand entrance she didn't care what the Drs said :)! How old is she now ?

that's exactly what happened to me I was having false labor and even that was super painful.....and I would get pissed when they kept sending me home. im like I have to be in real labor come on Dr induce me already hahahaha but she came on her on 3 days later lol@brandylemonds15 @bets

Hopefully !!! If she is sunny side up can I still deliver normal or will I have to have a c-section like with a breech baby @bets

@bets,

Oh my goodness yes I've toughed it out yesterday and cleaned the whole house and I couldn't walk by dinner time my back is still killing me , I've tried everything as well and none of it helps the pain gets so bad that it travels up my spine and gives me a migraine on top of all the pressure I've been feeling in my hips and lady parts it seriously feels like she's gonna fall out I don't think I'm going to make it until February 4th

hopefully your baby is anterior position, meaning facing the right way :)

yes, I'm to the point where I rather not get up anymore. I never knew back pain until four days ago it got worse and worse. they said to hold off my pain until the 30th of December when I'm scheduled. Tylenol doesn't help, baths, heating pack, nothing. It's all in my back. no abdominal pain just my back :(

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Haha I don't blame you !!! @mumof2 and same her I really didn't have back pain at all and say around Tuesday of last week my back constantly feels like it's on FIRE it hurts so bad !!! @bets

now I'm scared @mumof2 , I'm getting a c section, I hope I don't get the real contractions before my date. As it is the ones nurses have been calling false labor for four days, make me cry.

lol nooo don't say that, I have a son already & trust me I don't know lotsss of things :) @mumof2 so could that be why my back has been in such bad pain these last four days? it's killing me!

@brandylemonds15, @bets

@mumof2,

Wow!!! Did you get an epidural and they were still that bad or did you go all natural

she definitely was birth control for me I'm not having no more dam babies after that experience haha

@bets,

well mines came early and I dilated from 5 to 9 in a hour because she was sunny side up and the contractions were worse because she was facing that way I had all my contractions in back those are the worst pain I almost lost consciousness

Haha I had no idea what that meant thank you @bets you can tell I'm a ftm 😒

Ohhhh okay gotcha !! I've got a 3D ultrasound tomorrow so I guess I'll find out then I haven't seen her since 15 weeks @mumof2

no they are head down :) but instead of their back of the head facing your stomach, its their face facing up

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no the head is still down sweety she is just facing towards stomach instead of other way @brandylemonds15 that's what sunny side up mezns

Sunny side up means that her head is still in your ribs and not down ? @bets

@mumof2, my babygirl is sunny side up too. I was told sometimes those baby's take longer to dilate and usually go over their due date :( because of its position. not all but some

She's head down my ob told me she felt her foot in my rib last time she measured me , but I've carried extremely low my whole pregnancy so maybe that is playing a role it it not looking like she's dropped when I can definitely feel that she has @mumof2

listen to instincts because my belly never shower my baby dropping either but she did. plus also I was carrying her sunny side up instead of her facing down so that could be why too