My daughters father is a father when I tell him about her. I had a long talk with my mom and I think…

Oh my goodness. the ages and the issue are the same. that's spooky. I bet he doesnt work and makes excuses...

He works but makes excuses like there is no tomorrow is it alright for me to just say goodbye

@mommakitty88,

Of course it is. if he's not gunna be there then screw him. he can pay child support.

I honestly don't even want the money he only asks about her if I say something about her to him

@mommakitty88,

If he is not making a effort to be in her life then you shouldn't he is the dad and should be trying to be in her life

@anmarie1, I feel like I should always do it but now I feel like why should I

Ya like you can try but only for so long then he has to try to so if you're the only one trying then say screw it because obviously she doesn't mean as much to him as she does to you . You can also try telling him if he dont try you're not going to try

@anmarie1, I do then he tells me I'm selfish

Well its not selfish because he is not trying

@anmarie1, I'm not the person to fight

Ya just dont keep trying when he dont care

I'll not try @anmarie1

Im sorry that this is happening though hope it gets better

It's not your fault and thank you @anmarie1

Can't force him. if he doesn't want to let him be. and it'll get better. don't worry. just focus on baby

Thank you @mommakitty88

No problem hun.