Well your mom should put her foot down then. if your dad won't do it she needs to. that's what had to happen with us. my mom got sick of his shit, especially after he threatened me, and told him to pack his shit and leave

@arijane316, well she's finally getting fed up and my brother is just a compulsive liar as well and she's getting to the point where she wants him out! So idk girl it's sad to say this but I'm praying he gets kicked out

#cantwaittoleave lol

@mommasboys, ugh sounds like my brother just his damn mouth just makes me sick like just stfu already my brother is always making comments about me being pregnant and I'm just tired of it

What does your mom think about it?

I've gotten really bad with all my hormones but I feel bad when I think about because he's only 8, then I think of the shit he says. and my 17 yr old ain't any better. he says that mine and mom's life are easier then his. like bitch I'm a mom who's in school for time and pregnant. all you have is highschool(which he's failing 3 classes) and work(which he only has 12h/week)

@arijane316, lol my sister and I are trying to do the same thing but ugh it's just so messed up on how a person can be like dude youre "supposed" to be man get your shit together seriously but I wish I could get him kicked out as bad as that sounds I just want him gone

my dad didn't want to even deal with it. he sat my brother and I down and told us to deal with our problems without dragging him into it. i got into a huge fight with my brother and his gf was standing right there and I said flat out "you guys are lazy and don't do a damn thing around here. either help out or get out" he got all kinds of pissed off and told me to fuck off, called my mom to bitch, she came home and helped me tear him a new ass hole. and we basically forced him to move out. they were gone less than a month later. they moved into her parents house. I feel bad for her parents but good riddance

@arijane316, oh okay well at least he left right? Unfortunately my dad doesn't wanna kick him out and thinks he's this complete angel when he's a sorry ass loser I'm just having a hard time living here and I just wish he saw what I see and my siblings also see. Smh

Yea I had to move in with them because hubby is a truck driver and we couldn't have the dog in the truck, with this company, unless we paid a $2000 pet fee and them we found out that I'm pregnant. and hubby had talked to my dad about buying the house (he wants to sell anyway) so when they started talking more about it, my brother started getting more pissed and realized that he wasn't as in charge as he liked to think

@arijane316, girl I feel like you were living the life I'm living right now! Except my brother doesn't work does nothing just playing video games tearing up the house! I had to move back in with my parents because of my ex but I swear I'm going through that same shit

@mommasboys, girl you and I are in the same boat! I had to move back in with my mom and my brother still lives here and I have to pick up from him and he has no job just a sorry ass. I'm also the oldest just ugh idk if it's my hormones but girl I swear I just wanna punch him and I honestly want nothing to do with him!

nope. because they saw it too. he was living here, with my parents and his leech gf, didn't pay rent or bills, only bought groceries for themselves and claimed they bought for the whole house, constantly spent their money on stupid shit and loaded the house with things that weren't needed and took up more energy than we can afford instead of saving it for their own place, acted like they were the ones in charge of the house, he threatened to stab me, they stole from me, they never cleaned up after themselves or helped around the house. we forced them to move out and this have been so much better

I know I'm the oldest of 5 and the only one I can stand is the bby lol it sucks to try and raise my child around such hellians, but I'm going to feel so bad leaving my mom (I'm basically a maid for free rent)

@mommasboys, girl sadly my brother is 22 acts like a kid literally has no life going for him treats my little sister so badly and just ugh he stresses me out more then my baby's father and that's pretty ridiculous

Aw i'm sorry. Hopefully things get better for you guys. @ethansmommy2016

My little brother is 8 and I literally want to punch him in his face. if I deliver my bby early it's because of the stress and anger I've had because of him.

@amoureux, yeah you're so right

Never feel bad for cutting ties. Family or not, nobody is entitled to you or your time.

@floress_j, girl I wish it was that easy I'm so close to everyone else but my brother is honestly a piece of shit to where my other siblings also want nothing to do with him. I just wish he could get it together he treats strangers better then he treats us and we're blood but I mean it is what it is I guess 😐

@arijane316, did your parents get upset at you when you completely cut ties?

My brother & i used to bump heads A TON! I hated it & it actually would really hurt me although i never showed him it. After a while we realized it really wasnt worth it.. family's family. Hopefully your guys' problems are something that can be fixed. We're soo much better now & although i still disagree with some of his ways he's still my brother and always will be. I wish you guys the best. Sorry for my long ass paragraph lol

I did. my brother is a piece of shit and I don't speak to him anymore. He's not invited to my baby shower and he's not allowed at the hospital when my daughter is born