WARNING - LONG RANT I don't feel like I'm enough anymore. I don't feel like I'm a good enough…
WARNING - LONG RANT
I don't feel like I'm enough anymore.
I don't feel like I'm a good enough fiance, wife to be, or mother.
I told my fiancé that I find it inappropriate to go out with women, I know he didn't cheat, please don't take it there. Just as he would find it inappropriate for me to go out with men. Regardless of what our status is or how long we have known the other person.
Now I feel like one day, he will blow up at me for hanging out with his friends. I don't care if he hangs out with his guys. just tell me, and be home at a decent time. My problem is that he only knows how to be single. I try to plan things for us to do as a family or as a couple and it's almost like he can't get through without his friends texting or calling. or once we are done, he wants his friends over. I get it, I do, I don't want to keep him from his friends but I just don't feel like I'm enough. I don't know what to do to make him happy. He says he's stressed, I try to help but he says he's happy.
I don't know. I just don't feel good enough anymore.
Amanda·
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего
Side note - the people that usually call and text are men.
Emma·
im kinda in the same situation as you only without the females around. my boyfriend has 2 best friends that just cant get enough of eachother. they're constantly over our house. constantly going everywhere with us. i like his friends but i would appreciate some alone time with him especially since we wont get much once the baby is here. its definatly a little frustrating but anyways try not to take it personally. its just him being a guy and wanting to spend time with his friends. its not that your not good enough. try talking to him and telling him how you feel. hope things get better for you !
Amanda·
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего
@316ftm, thank you.
talking doesn't help, I just get more frustrated because he doesn't talk back.
💞Astrid💞·
honey we can't replace friends. I mean we are their wives, their support, their love ,their home. we are the ones who take care of them and love them . who keeps home nice so he wants to be there. but friends are friends. you are more than enough! !! you're a queen. the fact that he has fun with other guys making stupid things doesn't mean he doesn't love you or have fun with you too. of course everything has to have limits ... but remember his friends can't replace you AT ALL.... and you can't replace them cuz man are kids forever .. they need to "play" . (not with women. I would probably kill any woman around😂)
Amanda·
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего
@astridoll, and having his friends is not the problem. the problem is that he ALWAYS has them around. There is no alone time. He is either working or messing with his phone, making plans with his guys, or what have you. He made the mistake of going out with women friends and LIED about it. I wasn't being a bitch but I'm sure it won't happen again. he hasn't been acting like he wants to be here. He seems so unhappy.
Amanda·
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего
and detached
💞Astrid💞·
try to let him know how you feel Hun .. and pray a lot . a good way to feel better is keeping your mind busy... doing things. like if you don't notice or care about what he does. he will feel that . try not to think so much about it
Amanda·
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего
@astridoll, talking doesn't really help. He has no response. He just says he's sorry and that he's trying.
I try to keep myself busy all day. Especially because I have two mini me's running around but I feel depressed and all I want to do is sleep.