Мамлайф
Мамлайф
Приложение для мам
Marissa Tasker
Marissa Tasker
Мама дочки-младенца

Is it wrong that if the BD gets a new gf that I'm not letting my daughter around her at all! Even if it's somebody I…

Is it wrong that if the BD gets a new gf that I'm not letting my daughter around her at all! Even if it's somebody I already know? I'm not fucking doing this shit anymore.....so the last 2 day I was over at Tyler's(the BD) so they can see the baby. Yesterday everything was all good well sorta good...he tickled me into doing something when I really didn't want to do anything. And no I'm not and no I'm not meaning he kept tickling me until I said yes. He tickled me while he was in the process of trying. And I kept saying no. He did it anyway. He went to home.........well then while I was there I think he was upstairs smoking pot....idc what he does(well now I dont) as long as he's not doing it around my daughter. I was wanting to talk everything out and be a happy family with me and our daughter. He did want that yesterday but today...well now yesterday......I went back and as soon as I got there I went upstairs told him we were here and stayed and talked for a little bit. So then after like 10 mins (he was saying he was tired mind u) he called his sister's bf up. His sister's bf smokes. Either that or Tyler got some but other then that I went upstairs to go tell him something his mom told me and the door was locked with him his sister and u guessed it....his sister's bf RJay. It took him about a minute to unlock it. Usually he gets right up. He told me what I wanted to know. I went back a told her and he didn't come down till like an hour after......then after he came down he stayed down there for like imma say....an hour? Yea. His cousin and his cousins friend Alexis came. Now Alexis is a family friend that he's had a crush on before. When they got here he went straight on the porch and stayed out there for an hour and a half..then after, he went upstairs and Alexis and his cousin went upstairs and didn't even come down to say goodbye to his daughter...they smoke pot too. So that's why I'm thinkin he bought some. I started texting him and telling him I want to go upstairs and talk ever since I got there which was about 4ish. I left at about 8-9 o'clock. Yesterday he wanted me to tell him when we were leaving so he can say goodbye....but yesterday he didn't....so I'm thinking he's going after Alexis. Even if it was another girl I still wouldn't want my daughter around her because I'm afraid of her trying to take my place as Zoey's mommy. She's my daughter. Not nobody elses. But I actually have a reason to not want her around Alexis. She smokes. I don't really like the stuff around my daughter. I don't like it at all. Tyler's even lucky I'm letting him see her because of the shit. Especially when he was barely downstairs yesterday to go see her because of the shit...I think it's going to be a while when I go over there for him.....and if I do she's not going upstairs.....but he didn't want to talk and wanted me to leave at 6:30 because he was tired.....bull fucking shit.....if he was tired he would've told everyone he's tired and went to sleep...nope...and I was wanting to work everything out...not anymore. I'm moving on moving on now...never looking back #neverlookingback #movingforward

5

Комментарии

zoeysmommy54

Marissa TaskerМама дочки-младенца

I'm trying the best that I can..I mean when I first left which was like almost 3 wks ago he would ask me if I can bring baby over and when I do he always has something planned...I just don't know anymore. If he doesn't show in interest when she's 6 months old I'm cutting ties with him. His family still loves me. So I'll be going to his families houses but not for him....and I know but it just sucks....I mean why do guys have to be like this for their first baby...I wish my daughter a better life then this..@olivergrayson_may16,

Ответить

oliver_may29

Laura Mesher

It's sad though to think that by taking space you may completely realize that he doesn't fully care about you or baby. his priority may be just getting loaded in his room with friends and that's his issue, not yours to stress about. You can't force someone to stop doing that kind of stuff, but you can make it clear that your daughter will not be anywhere around that for her well being. So then he has to make a choice.. Which he may make the wrong one, but at least you know you're doing everything you can for your girl and that's what's important

Ответить

zoeysmommy54

Marissa TaskerМама дочки-младенца

@olivergrayson_may16,

Ответить

zoeysmommy54

Marissa TaskerМама дочки-младенца

That's what I was actually thinking. That he's caring about himself. and that's a good idea. I'm going to stay away and hopefully in that time move on. I don't need him in mine or my daughters life if he doesn't care.

Ответить

oliver_may29

Laura Mesher

I would feel the same way about a new woman in my BD's life. She's your child and if you don't feel comfortable with her meeting someone else right now then you have every right to say he can't do that. Especially if she's getting high. If people get High that's their business, but not around a child. It seems like he was only caring about himself and getting high with his friends. Not you or his child. That's sad:/ i am sorry girl. At least you continued to try. Maybe stay away like you said for a little and see if it even bothers him that you aren't so willing to come over with your child.

Ответить

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he…

Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill? He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over tonight and run it by him...

So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him…

So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge

EDIT : this post is very long.

EDIT : this post is very long. I need to rant really quick and I am expecting honest answers from some mamas on here! Tell me if I’m wrong. Couple months ago my boyfriend got into an accident and went through a coma, was in a rehab center and for weeks. I was only with him for the first 3 days of him being in the hospital cause him mom kicked me out and didn’t let me see him for months. When he woke up from his coma she lied to me told me that he didn’t remember me or his daughter! When she found out I was pregnant by him she tried to make everyone plus him believe that I cheated on him and got pregnant by someone else but even though she said that he still didn’t believe her which made me really happy! I wrote to her every single day since she kicked me out the hospital and she gave me nothing but hell and lies and even said she didn’t want to know about her own granddaughter. This story is extremely long so to not bore you guys out let me get to the point, he told me I could go to his house for Father’s Day and bring our babygirl and he wants to feel baby in the belly move BUT I was never allowed in his house cause of his mother and father. am I wrong for not wanting to step a foot in a house full of people who enjoyed to make my life miserable for months or better yet told me that she wants nothing to do with my daughter, and Is trying to convince him that baby on the way isn’t his?? I told him we can meet up with us aid (he needs a aid due to complications from his accident) and go out for dinner but he doesn’t want that. He already has a 5 year old daughter that his family adores ( but they can’t stand my daughter ) he wants them both together but I told him I don’t feel comfortable being in a house full of people who literally prayed for him to not remember me or his daughter! No one has apologized or tried to make things better just worse. I tried to make arrangements for us but he thinks I just don’t want his family around my daughter and he’s damn right! Those people will never get to be around my daughter ever again after all this stress they’ve caused!! Someone people tell me I’m not over exaggerating 😥