Is it wrong that if the BD gets a new gf that I'm not letting my daughter around her at all! Even if it's somebody I already know? I'm not fucking doing this shit anymore.....so the last 2 day I was over at Tyler's(the BD) so they can see the baby. Yesterday everything was all good well sorta good...he tickled me into doing something when I really didn't want to do anything. And no I'm not and no I'm not meaning he kept tickling me until I said yes. He tickled me while he was in the process of trying. And I kept saying no. He did it anyway. He went to home.........well then while I was there I think he was upstairs smoking pot....idc what he does(well now I dont) as long as he's not doing it around my daughter. I was wanting to talk everything out and be a happy family with me and our daughter. He did want that yesterday but today...well now yesterday......I went back and as soon as I got there I went upstairs told him we were here and stayed and talked for a little bit. So then after like 10 mins (he was saying he was tired mind u) he called his sister's bf up. His sister's bf smokes. Either that or Tyler got some but other then that I went upstairs to go tell him something his mom told me and the door was locked with him his sister and u guessed it....his sister's bf RJay. It took him about a minute to unlock it. Usually he gets right up. He told me what I wanted to know. I went back a told her and he didn't come down till like an hour after......then after he came down he stayed down there for like imma say....an hour? Yea. His cousin and his cousins friend Alexis came. Now Alexis is a family friend that he's had a crush on before. When they got here he went straight on the porch and stayed out there for an hour and a half..then after, he went upstairs and Alexis and his cousin went upstairs and didn't even come down to say goodbye to his daughter...they smoke pot too. So that's why I'm thinkin he bought some. I started texting him and telling him I want to go upstairs and talk ever since I got there which was about 4ish. I left at about 8-9 o'clock. Yesterday he wanted me to tell him when we were leaving so he can say goodbye....but yesterday he didn't....so I'm thinking he's going after Alexis. Even if it was another girl I still wouldn't want my daughter around her because I'm afraid of her trying to take my place as Zoey's mommy. She's my daughter. Not nobody elses. But I actually have a reason to not want her around Alexis. She smokes. I don't really like the stuff around my daughter. I don't like it at all. Tyler's even lucky I'm letting him see her because of the shit. Especially when he was barely downstairs yesterday to go see her because of the shit...I think it's going to be a while when I go over there for him.....and if I do she's not going upstairs.....but he didn't want to talk and wanted me to leave at 6:30 because he was tired.....bull fucking shit.....if he was tired he would've told everyone he's tired and went to sleep...nope...and I was wanting to work everything out...not anymore. I'm moving on moving on now...never looking back #neverlookingback #movingforward
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It's sad though to think that by taking space you may completely realize that he doesn't fully care about you or baby. his priority may be just getting loaded in his room with friends and that's his issue, not yours to stress about. You can't force someone to stop doing that kind of stuff, but you can make it clear that your daughter will not be anywhere around that for her well being. So then he has to make a choice.. Which he may make the wrong one, but at least you know you're doing everything you can for your girl and that's what's important
That's what I was actually thinking. That he's caring about himself. and that's a good idea. I'm going to stay away and hopefully in that time move on. I don't need him in mine or my daughters life if he doesn't care.
I would feel the same way about a new woman in my BD's life. She's your child and if you don't feel comfortable with her meeting someone else right now then you have every right to say he can't do that. Especially if she's getting high. If people get High that's their business, but not around a child. It seems like he was only caring about himself and getting high with his friends. Not you or his child. That's sad:/ i am sorry girl. At least you continued to try. Maybe stay away like you said for a little and see if it even bothers him that you aren't so willing to come over with your child.
I'm trying the best that I can..I mean when I first left which was like almost 3 wks ago he would ask me if I can bring baby over and when I do he always has something planned...I just don't know anymore. If he doesn't show in interest when she's 6 months old I'm cutting ties with him. His family still loves me. So I'll be going to his families houses but not for him....and I know but it just sucks....I mean why do guys have to be like this for their first baby...I wish my daughter a better life then this..@olivergrayson_may16,