does postpartum depression ever get easier? i know i have it and tried getting help from my obgyn and she told me to talk to my daughters doctors so I did and my mom went with cause it was my daughters first set of shots. my mom doesnt believe in postpartum depression so when i said something to her doctor my mom said it was just stress and the doctor listened to her instead of me. I'm looking for a new doctor currently because its gotten to the point that i feel like harming myself and have thought about suicide a couple times but i can usually talk myself out of it cause i think about my daughter growing up without a mom and how heartbreaking that is.
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its very irritating when everytime i go to talk she talks over me. i got tired of it fast! thank you for your support @kaylahammond if you need someone to talk to you can message me!
yeah I can see the irritation, I don't think I would be able to do it either.. it's not about what she thinks it's about you & baby & YOUR concerns. Its crazy that your doc didn't explain that to her or make it appoint to ask YOU & listen to you.. good move on looking for a new Dr & 86ing mom from tagging along! Good for you love @juliabug
thank you @nessiereyes and @preggie_usa .@kaylahammond, she is no longer allowed to go with me, she never lets me talk and the queations i want to know. @breloya i dont like medications either! and thank you you! @littlemissemma6915 its been 4 months for me.
If nobody else is willing to help, you do what you have to for you and your baby girl. Look up local counseling groups, anything. I wouldn't want you to harm yourself. It is hard, but with the right help, it gets easier. I promise. ❤️
you are beautiful and young and your baby girl is beautiful and will always need you don't let it get to you we all have hard times but just know you don't have to do it alone
Yes. You need a good support system Hun. Don't listen to anybody who's saying you're making it up. Find a new doctor who's willing to help. My doctor listened to me and found counselors for me and places to get help. And anti depressants were also an option. I opted out of that because I don't like medications. But you need help, not people telling you PPD isn't a thing.
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it is real hun, my husband may think the same way as your mom.. it doesn't make you a bad person or mother.. you are aware of it & are seeking help & that is the best thing you can do for yourself & your little one. Your mom may not be the best person to go with you to the appointments depending on the status of the appointment! Hang in there! you can do it! don't resent yourself in the end either, more moms go through it than we know! Good Vibes & Love being sent your way sweety!❤❤❤
suicide is never the answer hun, I know it's hard I was depressed for some time also but just know things get better if you need someone to talk to don't hesitate to write me
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
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anytime hun! everyone needs some one to talk to with understanding & compassion!❤ also the same to you! xoxo