sorry long post here...ladies, serious question here. I'm 6 week's PP and I'm a stay at home mom…
sorry long post here...ladies, serious question here. I'm 6 week's PP and I'm a stay at home mom with my baby girl. I'm with her ALL day. is it wrong of me to want to hand her off to daddy when he gets home so I can grab a shower or eat? We fight about it all the time because if I ask him to do anything with her he gets so mad. like today I had my PP check up and had to leave early and reschedule because he was tired and wanted a nap. So I took him home and said I was taking our daughter with me to my mom's to take her grocery shopping and we got into it because I told him next time he can stay at home instead of wasting my time. he punched a hole in our wall...am I wasting my time trying to get his help? should I even bother or do any of you have any advice for me to try to get him to spend some time with her?
Rachelleduran·
Мама дочки-младенца
He should be helping out, you're tired too
Katie·
Мама дочки-младенца
he doesn't see it that way :/
Mary·
Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)
I had the same problem. Im a stay at home mom as well but with 2 kids. it was really hard for me I was the only one doing everything to changing diapers to getting up in the middle of the night shit even baths. I didn't even have time to hang out with my oldest it was just me and the baby. my boyfriend wouldn't help me with either of the kids but let me tell u a lot of bitching and complaining helped all we did was fight and scream. until I was like. look I feel like a single mom I can do all this shit by myself. but I shouldn't have to when I have u. things didn't change right away but he helps a lot more
beatriz spivey·
Мама сына-младенца
He should be helping you out. he isn't the only one that's tired. My husband always asks me if he can do anything to help around the house. when he gets home from work I just tell him "here have our son i need to shower or nap" and he does it because mommies need the help.
Katie·
Мама дочки-младенца
It's hard for me to even get him to hold her...I'm afraid she won't know who he is when she gets older cause he never pays her any attention unless I get mad at him
Alexandria van epps·
Мама дочки-младенца
he should deff be helping you @mommysworld15 that cab cause you to develop postpartum depression if you get overly stressed. he as a father needs to own up to his responsibilities. work is tiring but so is being a mom. I'm a stay at home mom, full time student and my husband works 12 hour shifts and he still helps me so he should know parenting is an equal partnership not just one person doing all the work
Taylor Marie·
Мама дочки-младенца
He should be glad to help you even thou he's been at work you didn't make your baby by yourself