@xoxoryleigh, it would probably be better to do that especially if your baby will have contract with them later on in life you don't want them telling your child mommy didn't like us or whatever but I'm sorry that's happened

@kmommy2be217, everyone keeps telling me to be the bigger person and put it behind me

I'm a very hateful person when it comes to situations like this what makes them think they get to love her/him and be apart of her/his life if they didn't give two shits to help you and weren't concerned while you were creating him/her. The father of my kid hasn't even given me a single dollar and hasn't been there for me so I hope he doesn't plan on me just letting the shit go....yeah right

They haven't reached out to me or him though! They reach out to his dad! Like I have a Facebook , if they can reach out to his father on Facebook why can't they reach out to me?

you're the mom, so its soley up to you. you have that right. just remember the ones that were there for you from the beginning. my best friend of 10 years dropped me when she found out i was pregnant. you want your baby to be around love and positivity.

The same exact thing happened to me nor his side nor my side attended the shower and I honestly don't even want them around my child because it's so selfish of them but if they're reaching out just let them because at the end of the day these people whether we love them or not are related to our children