I'm pregnant with my second child and I had a csection with my first child. they are giving me the decision to have another csection or deliver vaginally. I have no idea what I want to do! any opinions??
I had one vaginal birth with an epideral and one csection (I got induced). With this one I have a choice, but my Obgyn recommends a VBAC bc there is less chance of something going wrong. Csection are major abdominal surgery. I'm leaning towards VBAC as of right now.
it took me 6 weeks to recover from my c section it opened up on the ends a couple times.
Yeah true I agree with @kikifleet5 everyone is different. I've just heard recovery from c section takes longer. I have had 1 vaginal birth that left me with 4th degree tearing and that took a month to heal completely. and then my 2 d I only needed 2 stitches and I was feeling great next day. so just depends
i have had 3 vbac and i c section and i like section better. i recover faster. but it all depends on the person to
@mommabear3cubs, not nessesarily it took me two weeks to heal from my c section. at two weeks i was done bleeding and having sex and everything.
I would try to have a VBAC cause vaginal birth is a lot quicker to recover from.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
thanks everyone! definitely gonna take what everyone has said into consideration and make my decision! :)