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Kierra
Kierra
Мама дочки-младенца

Everyone keeps telling me it's too soon to go back to work even though this is the time most moms go…

Everyone keeps telling me it's too soon to go back to work even though this is the time most moms go back. Unfortunately I'm not rich and I'm tired of seeing my husband work all this overtime just to support us. People keep saying the baby needs me and I understand that but she barely is with her father and she needs him too! At least if I work he gets to finally be with his daughter and we can live comfortably again but then I feel guilty if course leaving my baby for 8 hours a day 😢 idk idk

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lovegod89

Angelica Moya

Мама троих детей

I understand you completely, Sometimes sacrifices got to be made specially when we have kids, whatever decision you make it will be for the best of your family!

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morenita1989

Kierra

Мама дочки-младенца

@lovegod89, thank you !! Everyone is making me out to be a bad mother because I'm going back to work saying I'm not thinking about my daughter n I'm being selfis...I hate seeing my husband so tired all the time it's not healthy. N when he is off he sleeps all day so no time with baby girl

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lovegod89

Angelica Moya

Мама троих детей

People are always going to talk crap unfortunately they're not the one in your shoes they don't know the struggle and stress you and your hubby are going through, going back to work won't make you a bad mom at all don't pay no mind to what those people are saying they don't know anything you do what's best for your little one and husband, it's not like you going to be working the whole day your baby still going to see you no matter what you still going to spend time with her, feed her, play with her and just be there for her, sometimes a little sacrifice had to be done, your a great mom and a wife I'm sure don't let any one make you think other wise @wisky80wifey

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morenita1989

Kierra

Мама дочки-младенца

@lovegod89, thank you so much you don't know how much better you made me feel! I don't want to feel guiltily for supporting my family

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xomermaid

Ri 😘

В ожидании первенца

How could that be selfish ? you're providing for your family . they're crazy 😑 , they'll talk crap if you stay at home and they will if you go back to work ... people like that will always find something to talk about no matter what . just focus on you and your family ☺

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morenita1989

Kierra

Мама дочки-младенца

@xomermaid, omg I know! They are the same ones sayin you need to go back and now I'm going back now it's you need to stay home and now I'm just like fuck it I'm going to work so my babies can have a good life and have their parents around equally. My daughter needs her daddy and needs to bond with him. Since I wasn't working he didn't even get to take time off to be with her. He stayed with me for three days and went right back

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lovegod89

Angelica Moya

Мама троих детей

Aw you welcome mama, don't feel quilts about nada, tu estas haciendo lo que una madre hace por los hijos which is providing for them and also your helping your husband out as well by you going back to work your taking a little stress out of your husband shoulders trust me I know how you feel ever since I started working 6 months ago my husband have been a bit of less stressed out asi que sigue pa lante y perdona la palabra pero que se joda la gente, y se pueden ir al mismiso CARA$% lol @wisky80wifey

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onemoretime

Paula

Мама четверых детей

I agree with @lovegod89. I think you are making a brave and selfless decision doing something that will be hard on you to make life better for your family. Don't let anyone make you feel bad for that. Hugs!

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