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Amanda Scott
Amanda Scott
Мама двоих (7 лет, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

So my brother has a 2 year old and newborn. They were here for thanksgiving and his wife was so tired so I said maybe he…

So my brother has a 2 year old and newborn. They were here for thanksgiving and his wife was so tired so I said maybe he should let her have a break and feed the baby. He said no we are a "traditional family" she takes care of the kids and I work and provide. He doesn't even change diapers! So I asked him what he does with the kids. He says he plays and disciplines. What are everyone's thoughts on this?? I personally think he's wrong...

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maybaby2016

JackeeМногодетная мама (5 детей), беременна

we take on gender rolls for the most part but neither of us is above crossing to the other side if one of us needs the help. that's what husbands and wives do.

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disneybaby

Tayah DisneyМама дочки-младенца

That's how it is in my home, I breast feed though, and I honestly don't like it when others change her, or bath her or anything cuz they don't know how to do it like I do. My husband will take her so I can shower and eat sometimes, but other then that, I take care of her 24/7 and he works 10/6 lol I hated it at first, but it's made my bond with her stronger then his with her lol so it's his loss

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brandylemonds15

Brandy LemondsВ ожидании первенца

I don't agree with that at all ! The very least he could do was give the baby a bottle . She didn't conceive the kids by herself so why should she have to take care of them by herself in my opinion babies care is something both parents should be involved in

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steph11

stephanieМама дочки-младенца

basically sounds like my house. except I discipline as well oh and play he doesn't play. but we don't run our house that way it's just how it's ended up being

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bohomommy

Alex

I don't agree with it but everyone has a system that works. If it works for them, then I guess that's good. But if she doesn't speak up and say something, she's gonna always be tired. She should just leave for the day and show him what it's like to do her job.

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kermi86

AngelaМама дочки (5 лет)

so when his work day is over he is done for the day...her day would never be over bc a mother's work is never finished. :/

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missing293user

missing293userМама сына-младенца

That would not fly in my household......

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missing77user

missing77userВ ожидании первенца

I don't agree with that at all, both should share equal responsibility

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Would you consider this cheating? What would you do

Would you consider this cheating? What would you do I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and asked what pictures was it so hard for him to not look at and I guess he called her and they talked. And she supposedly came clean to me and said they would just talk and vent about what stresses them. Dh said the same thing and I guess the pictures were of them from a long time ago of them and other friends hanging out. Dh started crying saying he never meant anything that everything looked like the perfect crime but that there was nothing there. I have since kept my distance and told him to give me space. At the moment I don't want to see him. I believe what they said but I'm so hurt and I don't want to be the stupid person to believe everything.

who are you to judge how a woman take care of her kids so what if she gets wic or food stamps or medical assistance…

who are you to judge how a woman take care of her kids so what if she gets wic or food stamps or medical assistance that’s none of nobody business i seen to many of these post judging women of how they take care of there kids i’m a single mother of three and if i need assistance that’s my business not anybody else times is hard out here sorry if everybody don’t get help from there husbands or boyfriends or kids father it is single moms out here that is going to make sure there babies eat i said what i said