You know what really grinds my gears; when people only remembers you when they need something, how…

You know what really grinds my gears; when people only remembers you when they need something, how about a "How you been"?, How are you? How's everything? Instead they text or call and first thing they say is: Hey can I borrow this? Or do you have that or can you do me a favor? I don't mind being there for you and help you when you need me but is asking to see how I'm doing once in a while a lot, hard to do, it's not like I'm asking you for anything, but to not always remember me when you need something from me, people I tell ya! Smh 🙄😒