so phoebe is 3months on Monday and this is me now. honestly can't believe I'm basically back to normal!!! apart from my belly still sticking out a little bit, and having some saggy skin left over with stretch marks, I'm normal again. even though I would love to be slimmer, I wouldn't wanna change for the world. my belly is what phoebe was grew in, formed in, what kept her safe and warm, gave her the space to grow into the little person she is now. she grew in there and whats left over was her home for 10months, and it's what's left over from her being there. it's the mark that was left to always remind me of what my body and myself went through xxxxxxx love my body!!!!!