I think I have made a biggggg mistake :/ I wish I wouldn't have rushed to have a baby.. may be in…

I don't know what's going on but keep positive. God has everything under control. God bless you.

I just feel like I should have made better choices about whose baby I wanted.... my bd side is controling and we're not raised right. no one picks up after themselves. no one has manners.... none have been disciplined right.... I was raised way different... I stay with my bd and his uncle and his 11 year old son...... NO ONE CLEANS, but me. no one cooks, but me. they spill something or drop something, it stays there until I get it... I'M NOT ANYONE'S WIFE. I'M NOT ANYONE'S MAID. it's suppose to be team work! I use my wic and food stamps every months so they can eat... and i don't even get a thank you... it just pisses me off.. I wanna just up and leave and go back to one of my families house..... cause I know I won't be the one doing ALL the work!!!!

@sweetmommy26,

@ritamae, have you told your bd ? Maybe you should tell him that it's better if you go live with some one from your family . When I found out we were pregnant it was our graduation day from high school we've been together for 4 years and I wasn't expecting such a huge responsibility right after high school but when I found out the first thing I told him was "I AM NOT GOING TO LIVE AT YOUR HOUSE " and "YOU ARE NOT GOING TO LIVE AT MY HOUSE " we had to find our own place to stay his family isn't bad at cleaning or anything like that it's just for me that is how you start problems with your bd with it not even being your fault so right now we have our own house our family helped us put down the down payment and we are buying it's a 3 bedroom and 2 bath with bar room and a double garage in the back too much house for only us and his family wanted to come live with us but again I said no because what would of been the whole point of it ? They needed to let us be and that's how my parents thought it as well we needed to see the responsibility that it is to clean and cook and pay bills . It's hard but living with family I think it's harder because we aren't the same way , you should really talk to him because it is your relationship you kno

I'm in the same boat....my BD was the one that wanted me to have a baby and kept asking. I didn't want a baby with him. Not at all because of what was going on at that time but yea...he's the same way...I wish I would've waited!

@1st.timemommy, we had our own house we we're renting when we both had jobs.... before I got pregnant.. I lost my job and we moved in with my mom.... well she wanting too much for bills and at the time my bd was not making 30 hours a week... so he couldn't afford it.. we just recently moved in with his uncle and son.... I don't mind his family.... but they just think they are gunna tell me how to raise my child and all this... when they can't even keep dishes clean... I keep cleaning because I'm not having my son living in a dirty house.... that he is suppose to call home. you know. I have till Feb to figure something out if he don't come early..... me and him been together since 2011 and we have lived together our whole relationship.. I can't just leave him. I want us to be a family. I've tried to get a job before I started showing.. had no luck on it... I just want our old house back and I want our peace back.... just me him and our son...

@ritamae, yeah I understand I don't have a job either ;( and it sucks because I can't help him in a financial way but keep your head up high when baby comes you can get a job and hopefully y'all can move out again

yeah I'm hoping that... I just hope I'm not wasting my time... @1st.timemommy

You might just need to do that. It all sounds stressful and you don't need that. Get away for a little until your bd realizes and steps up. I wish everything works out.

@sweetmommy26, I can't just up and leave. I don't have any money.. no gas. and my inspections out..... I depend on him and that just tickles him to death to know I have to ask him for something.... cause I don't have anything... hell I can't even get him to lay something out for supper.... and I called him on the phone to ask him and get home... and nothing is Laying out.... I want him to start bitching at me cause he is hungry and it ain't done..... I will cuss him flat out! I'm just tired of it. I do everything around here but wash /wipe his ass.... all he does is construction work at his job..... comes home and does what ever he wants... yeah I don't have a job.. yeah I don't do anything..... he says.... but he always has clean clothes.... folded!!!! he has supper. I do everything for him... but I can't get a helping hand. I don't expect him to do it all.. cause he does work.. but one or two things.... switch clothes from washer to dryer or something... lay out frozen meats you want for supper.... anything.... it helps with the stress.... he says he will help if I ask... WHY THE HELL DO I HAVE TO ASK. WHY CANT HE DO IT ON HIS OWN! no respect!!!! ugh!

Wow that's a tough situation! He needs to see what you are going through, I just hope things get better soon for you and baby's sake.

@sweetmommy26, yeah.. Idk what I was thinking..... I was thinking with my heart... and not my head.....

Things will fall into place. Be patient.

@sweetmommy26, I sure hope so!