sooo I'm officially pissed off at him... he told me earlier this week we need to stop spending money…
sooo I'm officially pissed off at him... he told me earlier this week we need to stop spending money and start saving because the baby will be here before you know it and we'll I'm not working at the moment and we need to still buy everything for the baby's room. today I found out he bought weed (he has a prescription for it and doesn't abuse it, however he doesn't NEED it). the part that bothers me is we had plans to go get a 3D ultrasound done this weekend and I just asked him to confirm so I can make the appointment and he said we should just wait for another weekend. I feel like he just spent the ultrasound money on weed... mind you we haven't seen the baby sense I was 18 weeks and I'm now 29 weeks..l I don't want to make a big deal because the weekend isn't here yet but I want to cry because I just want to see her again.
Rebecca·
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im so sorry. :( my baby's dad is the same way. I really do hope you get to see baby soon!! @nicolerawrr
Nicole Alison·
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@bekka1071, if he says no tomorrow I'm going to go anyways without him... I never spend any money on anything and all the money we "save" for the baby should go to seeing the baby as well :P so screw him he can get high and I'll go see our princess
(I'm just angry at the situation so I don't care about him right now)
Rebecca·
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@nicolerawrr, I dont blame you!! if he says you guys are going to do something he should go through with it!!. thats why I would just do it anyways, cause god knows if I waited on my babys dad the baby would be three by the time he said okay lets go, lol. but good for you!! go see that little girl!!!
Cora·
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I'd be upset too! You have every right to be. You should go see your baby whether or not he comes with! 3D ultrasounds only look good around 30 weeks then babies start to get too big and squished to get good image's. You deserve to do something for yourself, growing a human is NOT easy!
Tahtahme·
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Maybe he thought (as the one bringing in the money) that he had already set aside the money for the tree? Either way, it appears you should remind. BUNCH of times before its time to buy what you want that you want those things. So its on his mind. That works for my husband when he wants to buy beer or tree or go out with his friends.
Nicole Alison·
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@bekka1071, I'm going to give him until tomorrow to change his mind before I tell him I'm doing it with or without him. sooo hopefully he changes his mind before Saturday morning when I just leave :P
@coraanne, im 29 weeks right now so this weekend I'll be a few days and hopefully I'll catch her before she turns and faces my back. at least that's what I'm hoping for. plus last time I saw her she was mostly bones and I didn't get a profile view :/
@tahtahme, we aren't penny pinching by any means and I know we have money for both weed and the ultrasound its more the principle of him telling me no with spending money but he goes and spends money like whatever. I'm probably blowing it way out of proportion but I've been bugging him about the ultrasound for what seems like forever. it doesn't help that this is his 6th kid and my 1st :P he is excited just not like I am.
Rebecca·
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@nicolerawrr, hopefully, :)
Cora·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Yeah he probably forgets that this is all new to you and very exciting... but it's still unfair that he can buy what he wants but says no to something that's important to you, and it's really a once in a lifetime thing. I hope he changes his mind! Either way, have fun and enjoy yourself and seeing your baby tomorrow! Hope to see pictures ☺