When ur bf is soooo wrapped up in social media....😒 he swears I know nothing about this second…

crazy how my now ex boyfriend does the same claims he has none but Facebook and I end up finding them, can't stand liars !!

He doesn't lie about it he just never told me he made it. I found it Bc I find everything.....lol...I laugh at it Bc at the end of the day these ppl can't do shit for him. When I confront him he isn't gonna lie about it but just wait til I go back Bartending.....Ima let him have it with the comments and shit guys will write on my page and my responses....he hated it before we got into a relationship and well before I got pregnant....but he keeps doing it to me and he knows how I feel about it and being pregnant makes it worse....so Ima just try to relax about it before I end up in the hospital. The page goes private so when it's open I do my research. He post about it on his other page and I see it but he doesn't think I ever have seen it Bc he takes it down.....smh @mypregnancy_journey

its crazy how nothing on their says anything about you but they want us to post everything about them 😒

The second page doesn't have me the first one does.... @monilovesautumn

what ever happened to having respect in relationships i feel like guys are just assholes overall lol don't get me wrong there's good man out there but damn where are they because I need to find him 😂

my husband is the same. he tells me he doesn't want me to have a Facebook or instagram and the moment I delete and deactivate is when I find him having facebook and instagram and has nothing of me on there. I've caught him at least 10 times already with different usernames. I told him i was tired of his shit already and that I wasn't going to be dealing with that.. the trust issues are real.

He just doesn't understand I used my social media for work only. I don't have time for the nonsense these other ppl bring into a relationship....these females don't care how much u post about ur current girlfriend if u entertain their "lust" for u....me and my Bf actually met on Instagram soo it just makes me more nervous...my ex boyfriend of 2yrs I met on Facebook and my Bc of a year I met on MySpace soo I know social media is good for some and bad for others @mypregnancy_journey

that's the problem . this is probably his most used page . what's the point of having you on one page and not the other. why? because this is the "groupie" page . this is his first page ,

the one with you on it is his second page . and exactly @mypregnancy_journey where are they??! @mommytobe_ that's because they don't want you to catch them slipping

Men just don't know how well we are at finding things and then when they get caught they don't know how to explain their actions @mommytobe_ I'm over looking through his phone Bc he got the hint to delete things but I look when he least expects it so I still catch him....I'm thirty steps ahead of him without him even knowing it.... @mommytobe_

social media just ruin relationships and female like to be little hoes too knowing damn well they have someone but still pursues them the guy equally wrong as she is

No his most used page is the one with the max followers but he can't add anymore ppl Bc they stop u at a max number so he had made another that I complained about it got flagged and then he made another on about a week or so ago....and I found it soo that one doesn't have me on it....the point is he is soo attached to the outside world that he forgets his responsibilities in house soo I get fed up with the shit...and then I get angry and explode and he tells me well what else am I suppose to do I said how about u look for a new apt u get a better paying job u go look for a second job wash the dishes clean the house believe me the list is eternal there's plenty u could b doing that u don't Bc u r so wrapped up in being in ur phone... Smh again I'm over getting mad about it while being pregnant Bc my son can feel all these emotions soo I'm just waiting. I told him today u r gonna b in for a rude awakening when I have this baby. I will b sane again and I am not letting anything slide this time. There is a life we created together here and he is not going to be second best to ur damn phone and need to be recognized by these girls on social media... @monilovesautumn

Yuppp and he doesn't seem to understand that....but hey for the day when it comes oh boy I'm just gonna say I told u so...u wanted that attention now u got it so go live with her Bc I'm not dealing with the shit n e more. I said once his 10k followers makes him 10k dollars I won't complain but these ppl do nothing but comment and like ur pictures what do u get out of that....I have an Instagram too but I'm also a bartender so the guys "lusting" after me and comments and likes I don't respond to unless I am working that night and the messages only refer to work and how they should come buy drinks and spend money which in turn pays bills....his defense is not everyone u respond to comes out and I said the same goes for u and u do parties and still don't get paid soo what's ur excuse (he party promotes as well) but his friends seem to always have shitty parties and no one gets paid smfh @mypregnancy_journey

yep he always tries being sneaky with me but I always end up finding out about everything and I always let him know that no matter what he ends up hiding I will eventually find out. and it's true when you confront them they don't know how to explain themselves. @monilovesautumn @disa_nicole

and there's the difference between you and him you actually respect your relationship and it's just work I feel like guys are so damn insecure that they need females to give them that attention and if that worth losing what you have especially your family you're a fucking loser in my eyes

Basically @mypregnancy_journey like that reassurance from these women/girls is worth your family...that is pathetic...

exactly! then when they understand what they lost its too late half of the time

At that point it will b for him to figure out. Hopefully it was all worth it @mypregnancy_journey

need to get it together

What social media site is this?

amen @mypregnancy_journey , @disa_nicole , well my situation just sucks completely I just had a baby two days ago and my kids father doesn't claim the baby boy . he doesn't care for him at all. I went through the contractions , the labor and the two day recovery by myself he called one time to ask what the baby look like and that was it . our baby is in the NICU did he come to visit me or the baby no he didn't. I was alone and I come home to the house completely messed up . baby bassinet not even built , I had to cone home in a ride that medicaid provided , he hasn't asked me how I'm doing or anything , my back hurts , I have a toddler he just pinned on me , and he went to sleep . I'm exhausted and sore . like I should be able to rest I j

just got home from the hospital its not fair . I'm sore and hurting on top if that I'm not supposed to be lifting anything . but I had to carry a pump from wic , I want to cry ... I'm doing this alone . and he doesn't help at all .

@disa_nicole, @mypregnancy_journey

Do u have any family that can help u....men don't know the struggle women go through. They think they do but they have no idea.....I would tell him get his ass up and get the hell out since he doesn't wanna help or cares to help...the toddler is his baby? If u don't mind me asking @monilovesautumn

yes they are both his kids. he doesn't even want to sign the declaration of paternity. and those papers needed to go back in the hospital before I left . both of our name is on the lease , we got into it many of times . about this and I'm just so physically drained. I really am . I don't have the energy to fight anymore . I'm like really over it . and my family is spread out , in Cali and Texas

@disa_nicole,

wow @monilovesautumn I'm so sorry you went through all of that alone, no woman should ever go through all of that alone he should be responsible for his child and stop making up excuses! what an asshole

Oh wow....I'm sorry u are going through this....this isn't the time u should b going through this 😔😢 wats his issue with accepting paternity smfh @monilovesautumn

smh I don't even know but in getting irritated AF because this whole pregnancy has been shit he's think I cheated on him and he think the baby not his and clearly it is . he looks just like him smh . but he's the one going around sleeping with people in our apartment he said I left for a week so he thought I moved out so he did what he want . @disa_nicole @mypregnancy_journey

Smfh wtf 😒😡 @monilovesautumn thought u moved out asshole really

@monilovesautumn, that's just not right, but a guilty mind is always looking to put the blame on someone else

yup always 😔 @mypregnancy_journey , and I was so hurt but I'm like you know what its not worth it @disa_nicole