Yes I totally agree. What r they thinking. However it bad to be total opposite to bc my husband and I been together 9 years and we waited a very long time to start our family bc we saved and saved and saved now were older and have every possible thing and our family is like what r we going to buy this sweet baby. I think there should be a happy medium u dont have to have college paid for when it arrives but need at least 5k or so just for babies needs the first 2 years and if childcare is in pic u need 20k. Just my thoughts.
I'll add to that if you hate your boyfriend and think they're constantly cheating on you and you're still in "you're planning/trying to get pregnant". Instant block. Smdh