🚨RANT🚨
Okay yesterday my boyfriend told me that before he marries me he wanted me to do some things. He said "I want you to start eating healthy. I want you to live a long time" and "I want you to have a plan for your future and I want you to go to school so you have something to be proud of"
Maybe I'm overreacting but that just really pissed me off. Like he was saying that I needed to lose weight. I eat pretty good and get fast food occasionally. It's not like I'm overweight and I don't eat junk constantly. And he wants me to be a stay at home mom one minute and then he wants me to go to school. And he wants me to have something in proud of. Like nothing in my life is worth being proud of.
And then today he asks if I still love him. Like yes one thing that pissed me off isn't going to make me stop loving you. So I'm offended right now.
Rant over.
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I'm glad you didn't take it the wrong way. You know how some moms are on here (delicate).
@nelianiz.elize, thank you. I wanted someone's opinion from a different viewpoint.
I didn't take it the same way you did. He said that he wants you to eat healthy so that you can live longer pretty much not that you're fat. I think that prob he thinks you are eating a lot of junk food but maybe you don't think so. Don't take it the wrong way. Either way he is your man so would u rather have him lie to you ? If so, dont marry him and marry someone who will tell u what u want to hear hun . I wish my husband would tell me to quit my job and go to school so that I can be proud of something because YES when you graduate from college thats a big accomplishment that everyone should be proud of. Re-think about it and if you have any questions ask him because communication is a huge key to a successful relationship/marriage. Ask him, do you think I'm fat or do you just think that im eating junk food? Ask clarifying questions hun.
id be pist. but im very independent