Ohkay so I need help....
Don't know if I done the right thing or if I should have just left it alone.
My fiancés brothers wife just found out she is pregnant, we don't get along what so ever. She always tries to put do my fiancé and myself. When we found out that we were expecting our little guy she immediately started trying to have a baby, then we started discussing marriage and she had to get engaged and start planning her wedding for sooner than ours, I wanted a new car she made her fiancé go buy her one, we talked about a new truck she made her fiancé buy the best of the best. It's like she just can't stop trying to be better than us. Well we were at this concert thing and her aunt walked up and I informed her that I didn't care who she was but I let her know her niece didn't like me much and her aunt went back and told her I said all this stuff when in reality I didn't say anything but that she doesn't like me and its the truth. Well tonight I texted her and told her congrats on the baby and thanked her for helping me after I had my little one because she helped me get in and out the tub and she helped bathe him and took me to the hospital when I had the flu and my son was only 3 weeks old and she's brought us to many of doctors appointments for my son. I just don't want the drama anymore and I know if she starts coming around again that's all it's going to be. I am very happy that they finally got pregnant but I don't know if I should have just let it be or what. Kinda stuck in the middle because my son has to have his uncle and as long as me and his aunt are fighting and not getting along then it's just going to make my son miss a major part of his life. :( 🙁🙁guess all things happen for a reason.
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No she's rude about it. This has been going on for 6 years. We get into it really bad and then she wants to play the poor pitiful me card and it just drives me crazy and I tell her about herself. @swtlilangl
As long as she's not being downright rude to you and is just competing I would just ignore it. She's only competing with herself and her own insecurities.
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
I don't think she gets it.
I swear sometimes I just need to renew my policy to not look at the comments in Facebook. I never used to. I don't know why I started. But the ignorance is real.
I just absolutely love some women on here! Some woman wants to write on another women's post telling her she shouldn't be having sex at all in the beginning of pregnancy. I didn't know she was her doctor. Then she wants to tell me that the first trimester is only 1-9 weeks pregnant. And she lost her baby at 4 weeks pregnant due to sex. Like sweetie that's your period starting!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Oh in that case I'd cut her off. If your so or his brother won't put her in her place than I wouldn't want my child around something toxic. It's their loss if they aren't in your child's life.