I may receive a lot of shit for this but here I go. I just saw a woman on Facebook complaining…

I completely agree and I am the exact same way!👌

Not to mention that the person she lives with just commented and put her on blast about her and her husband not paying anything. LOL. Like... give me a break.

@alicia91,

That's just horrible! So she doesn't even pay for stuff and she stilllll can't say "hey, let me AT LEAST help keep the house clean" ugh I hate people like that

Exactly. I don't clean my room everyday but I make sure my husband who works 12+ hours everyday sometimes 15 comes home to a warm house and loving arms.

Well first and for most, y'all don't pay a Damn thing but the eletric bill, which is only 112 and y'all have my kitchen and living I can't even use it. This Apartment is mine and Nicolas Farmer not someone else's.<< That was the comment of the person she lives with. LOL.

@alicia91,

I agree with you 100%! In my opinion, my husband is the one who works and I stay home, so the majority of the house hold duties are my "job." Sure it gets tiring and monotonous at times, but if I was the one working 12+ hour days I would expect the same from my husband. And I would be thrilled if all I had to do clean was 2 rooms in a house lol!

@lilanne1927, The long hours are so hard. :( My fiancé is on his 10th day straight of 12-15 hour days.

@boogersbugsanddirt that is so embarrassing! 😂 I bet that poor woman feels bad throwing them out so what is she supposed to do! 😕

@kmlac7, often times the only rooms I hardcore clean are the rooms visible to visitors. LOL. I'm so glad I'm not the only one ladies.

Not at all, My husband leaves everyday at 5am and doesnt come back until around 6 or 7pm, after showering and eating its like time for bed, the least I can do is have him come home to a clean home, a hot meal and I even put my kids to bed at 9pm everyday cause that leaves us about an hour to our own selves before he falls asleep, Idk I just try to make everything easier for him, I feel like he already has enough on his plate.

And he does this monday through sunday literally, like he didnt even get thanksgiving off or any holidays for that matter, he gets the occasional sunday off and thats it 😕

YES! That's what I do too, lol. I was so excited when we were building our house that it was 2 stories that way I could "hide" stuff upstairs if we have visitors and make downstairs look like I'm Martha Stewart haha

@alicia91, that's pretty much what happens at my house. Except my fiancé insists on putting our boys to bed because he likes spending that time with them

@boogersbugsanddirt thats very sweet, thats a good man!! 😄

@kmlac7, LOL! I can't wait to have have a house, we live in an apartment so it's hard to conceal some of the chaos. We have a shit closet, there are toddler beds, old games, tools and truck parts in there.

I AGREE!!! and I'm not anti stay at home mom but the other think that drive me about as crazy as this is the single stay at home mom with no income to support her kids just child support...and they still bitch

haha! I think all of my closets could be considered shit closets 🙈😂

@aphrodite2014, yep that true!!

@kmlac7 now that I think of it.. mine too. Lmao.

lord tell her try making bunk beds everyday in the girls room then in the boys room kmsl and having a 1 yr old saying mommy home holding your shirt then having to cook while your one yr old is wrapped around your leg and then constantly cleaning your house and still have to do homework

@boogersbugsanddirt, my husband works Monday-Friday but with certain jobs comes long hours. I'm not ready for snow cause then he will be working more than 15 hours and will go a month without a day off, unless I go into labor. He'll he's even had to work with different counties due to, like I'd say more than 5 inches of snow

@jdrose, we have bunk beds. they're the worst to make. I feel your struggle every day and she complaining about cleaning 2 rooms. smh. And all the woman she lives with wants is that they're presentable, she ain't asking you to bleach the walls! lol!

@lilanne1927, wow! I hope you get some time with him! Sounds like my fiancé he may be working all this month with no days off. Some days starting at 6 and not getting home until 11 pm. It's hard. I still can't believe he's on day 10 and I feel as if his boss is shorting him on his paycheck. He also won't tell his boss I'm pregnant because his boss is a dick and does not like families, feels like it's a distraction. So he would try to cut my fiancé's hours.

I'm cherishing every second before the snow hits us. He works from 630 to 5 on normal time and works tell 8 if he has to work over and once we get snow he will be working from 5 to 10 IF he's not put on night shift. I'm sorry your SOs boss is imo a dick. That's very childish of a boss to act.

the worst especially when I climb at the top and the bed creaks and I'm praying it doesn't fall

@jdrose, lol. I'm always like, I know I'm fat, shut up. lol

I love your post! I come from a more traditional family where women have stayed home and taken care of the home and children. I'm on disability for the rest of my pregnancy and while we don't have children yet, I make damn sure the house is clean, laundry is done, and he has a hot meal waiting for him. He works long days, and does an amazing job providing. I get a lot of crap from some of my cousins who say I am anti-feminist and some friends too telling me it's not my "job" to cook and clean for him and it's degrading. Those comments are infuriating to me because it minimizes my contribution which I know to be important! I always make the point that the women's liberation movement wasn't about making it so women didn't have to stay home and cook and clean, it was about making sure women were given a choice! @boogersbugsanddirt

@rebcamdot, I honestly could not have said it any better myself. Bravo!

My mom keeps pushing me to work but my fiancé and I have it worked out to where it's better for us if I stay at home with out kids until they are all in school. As long as we can make it work that way. @rebcamdot

@boogersbugsanddirt, Good for you guys! I'm glad most of my family is supportive, especially my mom. She stayed home until we were older and then went back to work so she sees the value in it too. Plus I have great memories growing up with my mom at home! We did crafts, baked cookies, had fun play dates at our house. I loved it as kids! I'm certainly not looking down on anyone who has to or chooses to work, but I think it goes both ways and no judgement is needed regardless. At the end of the day it's no one else's business. I just get frustrated when I'm told I'm being anti-feminist! Give me a break!

@rebcamdot, I feel exactly the same!

I couldnt agree more! don't get me wrong, my baby's father works out of town, and asked me to quit my job, he doesn't think it's necessary for me to work when he makes almost 30 dollars an hour, I live at my mom's until the baby gets here and we get our own place, but I clean and pitch in bc I don't work and my mom does. and I am very grateful to be able to stay home and enjoy my pregnancy, even though I wish I worked sometimes lol and I will be home after the baby arrives for a period of time, and I feel the same way, I look forward to having the house clean and dinner waiting on my boyfriend when he gets home, taking care of our daughter and cooking and cleaning will be my job and if I need to work to bring in extra money then I will! && @rebcamdot I look forward to doing all these things with my daughter if I do stay home full time! my boyfriend sees it as his duty to take care of us, I'm not used to that, but we both see the benefits of it with him working out of town, I'll be able to be there all the time with my girl and enjoy being a new mommy with our the stress of money, or daycare, which really scares me lol