some times I wonder it's to much to ask that my BD lifts the toilet seat to pee, can manage to not…
some times I wonder it's to much to ask that my BD lifts the toilet seat to pee, can manage to not leave the toilet paper on the floor, close the patio door all the way after coming inside, stop using my bath towel then throwing everything in the floor or leaving a big mess for me to clean when I get home and he had left to work. or is it crazy that I literally go behind him all day like a maid more like a slave cleaning up after a grown man? and paying all my bills but that's another topic for another post, anyways not to mention that he can't ever use the same cup after taking a drink he had to get a clean cup, he'll he won't even use the same plate to get 2nds at dinner he gets a new one and fork each time.....I swear it's gonna have to change before the baby comes out I'm going to lose it!
#ranting, sorry
Andrea·
Мама дочки-младенца
Why do you put up with it, momma? Put your foot down! Express yourself! You have every right. You're pregnant & hormonal.
Jamie·
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He doesn't live in a hotel and he's not eating at a buffet. Sounds like he was catered to when he was younger. I knew I guy like that and I actually cut ties because I wasn't his maid.
Erica·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@lynleesmom115, trust me I do, and he looks at me lille I'm crazy, will start yelling at me or tell me he's sorry and continue to do it as if nothing wad brought up. I'm thinking of giving him an ultimatum the day of the babies birth because there more serious things I'm putting up with that come with this also, so it's ultimately going to either have to stop or him leave. but to Answer you I promise I tell him something every day!
Erica·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@chichimango, trust me I'm to that point and from the looks of it no, I grew up with two maids and do not do this, I clean. support myself and have no problem cleaning my own messes. honestly he is the middle of 6 and there house is a big nasty mess none cleans
Jamie·
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@ehamp86, so he never learned to do anything himself. makes more sense
Erica·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Lol right, it seams like he didn't, or he's just a slob I don't know but I can't deal with it I'm border line OCD and can't stand that kind of stuff lille it brings be anxiety @chichimango he's just gonna have to change period
Jamie·
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@ehamp86, I agree with you. it's one thing to be untidy (like mail on the table or taking an extra day to put away clothes) but a slob I cannot do. I am actually cleaning as we speak because my cat sheds like a Charlie Brown Christmas tree. ahhaha