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Not pregnancy related!!!! Am just so confused on what to do!!I need some major advice ladies. So me and my baby daddy…

Not pregnancy related!!!! Am just so confused on what to do!!I need some major advice ladies. So me and my baby daddy broke up a week ago tomorrow. It's a good thing that we did. I've been wanting to leave him a long time ago. There was physical emotional and mental damage that was being done. More towards me. I was never happy. We were always fighting in front of he baby. So I'm perfectly happy we broke up. Yea I might have my second thoughts but at the end of everyday I realize I did the right thing. Soooo I saw my ex (my first boyfriend who I still liked especially after we broke up 4 almost 5 years ago) earlier that day. He gave me his number and everything. Me and my BD were still together. And I had the cops at my house for me to get the baby lalalala. Ok fast forward. Me and him start talking as friends again. Him trying to help me through this situation after me and the BD split. Then yesterday I was over to his house so his mom could see the baby and his mom loves me. I was sitting on the same couch as he was since he wanted me to come over there and sit because he missed me. We started doing this thing. He would tap my hand with his hand and I would do the same. We got to the point where he was holding my hand. Last night when he was bringing me home I asked him. I said ok did that mean what I thought it meant with a smile on my face and he said he wouldn't have done it if he didn't mean it that way. That's pretty much him asking me out...he's a really sweet guy. But I just don't know whether I should go for it or not quite yet.. #confusedmomma

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zoeysmommy54

Marissa TaskerМама дочки-младенца

@mypregnancy_journey,

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zoeysmommy54

Marissa TaskerМама дочки-младенца

I will. And ok. :) thanks mommas :) @mypregnancy_journey. @mariahabigael

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missing77user

missing77userВ ожидании первенца

yeah definitely take it slow. just do what you feel is best is for you and your daughter & if the father of your child comes trying to put up a fight with you get a restraining order on his ass.

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zoeysmommy54

Marissa TaskerМама дочки-младенца

He's been trying ever since they broke up. She doesn't talk to him. She just ignores him. He doesn't think she's going to let him in the baby's life @mypregnancy_journey he does feel the same. He wants it to happen again because there was a misunderstanding when we broke up freshman year. That's the thing. I'm scared of my BD but not of everyone else. I know he won't abuse me like my BD did. Everytime he looks at me I can see it. It's like his eyes light up. He's always happy to see me. And I know I'm happy to see him whenever I can. @bets that was the first thing I actually said to him if it actually goes through. I said that i think we should take it very slow. No serious relationship for a while. With all the crap I had to put up with for the past year I'm not doing that again. By no means @mariahabigael

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mariahabigael

Mariah Foster

I'd just take it slow (:

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missing77user

missing77userВ ожидании первенца

honestly I would tell him to try to work something out with the mother of his child so he can be there for his baby. because it would be kind of messed up for him to be in your child's life but not his own and the mother of his child will use that against him if she found out and would give her more of a reason to bash him as a dad.

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bets

Bets 💛Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (37 нед.)

I would move on if I knew it was the right man. You deserve it. Hopefully there is no drama with his BM because that can affect you guy's relationship, but only if you let it. Let him in, if you feel the same about him. See if what he says, its what he's really about. Don't be scared because of something in the past with your BD.

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zoeysmommy54

Marissa TaskerМама дочки-младенца

That's the thing. He loves her. He was even telling me last night that he will help me with her. That I wasn't alone...another thing he told me I just forgot to put up is that he has a baby on the way. his BM is due in may. She's not letting him in the picture. It was an accident too. It broke on him. Probably tmi....I mean yes. I already know he's going go be here for my daughter I just don't know though. Maybe what I'm trying to ask is what would u do if u were in my place @bets @mypregnancy_journey

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missing77user

missing77userВ ожидании первенца

do what you think is best for not only you but for your daughter too, it's good that he isn't a stranger as in a guy you just met, that was your first boyfriend so you know him just make sure that if he's going to be with you, he's not going to be in and out of your daughters life.

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bets

Bets 💛Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (37 нед.)

You're in every right to love on whenever you decide. Just always make sure they accept your baby 0 as much as you.

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.

so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece…

so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece that is 25 that lives with him and she has a daughter that's almost 6 but on day she was being stupid and told me that I might have her daughters dad closer then me then i though since then we have had lots of fights about it and he always says it's not his daughter but why would she say that and why would he have gotten so mad when i questioned him about it and every time he post pictures and stuff about her he puts my daughter i am honestly double thinking this if I should move or not im 22 and 6 months pregnant!?????