Not pregnancy related!!!! Am just so confused on what to do!!I need some major advice ladies. So me and my baby daddy broke up a week ago tomorrow. It's a good thing that we did. I've been wanting to leave him a long time ago. There was physical emotional and mental damage that was being done. More towards me. I was never happy. We were always fighting in front of he baby. So I'm perfectly happy we broke up. Yea I might have my second thoughts but at the end of everyday I realize I did the right thing. Soooo I saw my ex (my first boyfriend who I still liked especially after we broke up 4 almost 5 years ago) earlier that day. He gave me his number and everything. Me and my BD were still together. And I had the cops at my house for me to get the baby lalalala. Ok fast forward. Me and him start talking as friends again. Him trying to help me through this situation after me and the BD split. Then yesterday I was over to his house so his mom could see the baby and his mom loves me. I was sitting on the same couch as he was since he wanted me to come over there and sit because he missed me. We started doing this thing. He would tap my hand with his hand and I would do the same. We got to the point where he was holding my hand. Last night when he was bringing me home I asked him. I said ok did that mean what I thought it meant with a smile on my face and he said he wouldn't have done it if he didn't mean it that way. That's pretty much him asking me out...he's a really sweet guy. But I just don't know whether I should go for it or not quite yet.. #confusedmomma
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I will. And ok. :) thanks mommas :) @mypregnancy_journey. @mariahabigael
yeah definitely take it slow. just do what you feel is best is for you and your daughter & if the father of your child comes trying to put up a fight with you get a restraining order on his ass.
He's been trying ever since they broke up. She doesn't talk to him. She just ignores him. He doesn't think she's going to let him in the baby's life @mypregnancy_journey he does feel the same. He wants it to happen again because there was a misunderstanding when we broke up freshman year. That's the thing. I'm scared of my BD but not of everyone else. I know he won't abuse me like my BD did. Everytime he looks at me I can see it. It's like his eyes light up. He's always happy to see me. And I know I'm happy to see him whenever I can. @bets that was the first thing I actually said to him if it actually goes through. I said that i think we should take it very slow. No serious relationship for a while. With all the crap I had to put up with for the past year I'm not doing that again. By no means @mariahabigael
honestly I would tell him to try to work something out with the mother of his child so he can be there for his baby. because it would be kind of messed up for him to be in your child's life but not his own and the mother of his child will use that against him if she found out and would give her more of a reason to bash him as a dad.
I would move on if I knew it was the right man. You deserve it. Hopefully there is no drama with his BM because that can affect you guy's relationship, but only if you let it. Let him in, if you feel the same about him. See if what he says, its what he's really about. Don't be scared because of something in the past with your BD.
That's the thing. He loves her. He was even telling me last night that he will help me with her. That I wasn't alone...another thing he told me I just forgot to put up is that he has a baby on the way. his BM is due in may. She's not letting him in the picture. It was an accident too. It broke on him. Probably tmi....I mean yes. I already know he's going go be here for my daughter I just don't know though. Maybe what I'm trying to ask is what would u do if u were in my place @bets @mypregnancy_journey
do what you think is best for not only you but for your daughter too, it's good that he isn't a stranger as in a guy you just met, that was your first boyfriend so you know him just make sure that if he's going to be with you, he's not going to be in and out of your daughters life.
You're in every right to love on whenever you decide. Just always make sure they accept your baby 0 as much as you.
@mypregnancy_journey,