Sorry in advanced you guys. This is the only place I can vent on without my family up my ass.
I'm so sick of people telling me I don't wanna get married or marriage is a bad thing or that I'll lose my freedom if I get married. If you're married and you feel like that, then obviously you're in the wrong marriage. Marriage is supposed to build you up not make you feel trapped. Marriage is a beautiful thing between two people who love each other. If you feel trapped or like you have no freedom, get out of your marriage. Don't tell me I don't wanna get married because that's what will happen to me. I love my boyfriend and he loves me and our baby girl. We want to get married but everyone keeps making it sound like its prison which scares us. I don't want my future to be based on what others say because they're marriage is shit. Let me be happy. Just because you think I won't be happy doesn't mean that's true.
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I think that if this is what you guys want then no body else's opinion matters :)
@mariahabigael, it's okay. It's my mom who says that. And her friends agree with her! They tell me I need to be the one with the "balls" in our relationship. But I don't think that's how it should be. Both people should have the "balls" not just one. I just wanna be happy and not feel like my relationship is a joke.
I feel the same ! No one has said that to me, but sometimes I get the feeling they want too. I'm sorry people are being so negative.
Believing in marriage...
How does someone not believe in marriage? People get married all the time. And there are countless examples of successful marriages. If it's not something you want to do, that's fine. Say so. But don't say you don't believe in it. News flash: Marriage is real! People really do get married and stay married. Believe it!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
Thank you for loving me, teaching me strength and showing me pure innocent love. I feel lost, empty and broken - but in time I will be okay, because I know you're okay and at peace. Enjoy your fun in fields of flowers and endless laughter my sweet girl. Know that you have made an impact on the world more than anyone can see because you are truly amazing and I thank God for the time he has given us with you. I love you always and forever my princess Diana.
Rest in peace my sweet girl 👑👼💜💋
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so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her because they were young and how he was raised that if you get someone pregnant you have to buckle down and be a man. now that I'm pregnant he says my child has to be a secret. no family from his side and none from myself because I have no family. I feel like my child is coming into this world like a burden from him. and I have no respect from my kids father . even worse he sleep...
yup.. or the bitter ex wives who have been through more than one mariage...thanksgiving was not fun for me =( i was told you might think this wil be your only marriage but people get divorced etc. . i want to keep my child and my future husband away from my family ..