**RANT** Either my fiancés mom or sister gave me an envelope filled with receipts of shit they bought us so I know how much they spent. It's all from fucking May and they're purchased with a credit card so I obviously can't return it. Especially since it's from May. They always bitch at him about how much they spend on the baby (they've spent like 300$, which I never asked. My stepmom has paid 500 for his crib and idek how much the glider was but i know they're expensive, which I never asked for either but she's never even mentioned it other than "hey I bought this, do you like it?". My mom has spent over 500$ for PP clothes for me, baby clothes, got my entire family to buy me things, and got all of her friends to give me hand-me-downs and has never said anything other than "I'll do anything to make sure you have what you need and don't stress". His family are the ONLY ones I know to have the audacity to do something as immature as this.) There's no "oh I gave them to her to return shit" because that's bullshit. They sent it to try to make ME feel like shit now after constantly doing it to my fiancé since I got pregnant. This bitch went fucking digging to get these receipts from 7 MONTHS AGO. UGGGHHHHHHHHHHH. So now they're trying to "upset" a 9month pregnant woman. They didn't even come close to upsetting me. Getting me fucking pissed, yes. They don't fucking deserve to my child. I really don't care what my fiancé says. Seeing my child is not a right. It's a privilege. And they've done absolutely nothing but cause me stress and get me angry my entire pregnancy. I don't care if my fiancé agrees with me or not. This is fucking ridiculous. I'm almost ready to give birth and they're trying to pull this shit?! I don't fucking think so. I don't tolerate that. I don't care who they think they are.
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@mariahabigael, My FIL is all of those as well! And my MIL brags to everyone about how she isn't eating and all the weight she's lost because of it. And she even threatened to kill herself after her dog died. She had a full mental breakdown. I know that animals are family and what not, but she never takes care of her animals. And then all of a sudden when one passes she threatens to kill herself. His entire family just gets me so angry.
@fifismommy, Ugh that's terrible. I really don't know why these women act like this. There's absolutely no excuse for their actions. It's honestly really sad how pathetic they are. Keep your head up girl, and know that there's a bunch of us on here that can't stand our in laws either 😂
@aek91, Right?! Who the fuck do they think they are?? Ugh. I've always heard of in laws being horrible, but I would've never guessed they be THIS bad.
@aek91, Right?! Who the fuck do they think they are?? Ugh. I've always heard of in laws being horrible, but I would've never guessed they be THIS bad.
We all hate our MIL's lol. I really hate mine. She's not a mean person she's very generous. Just ignorant and irresponsible. And an alcoholic
My mother in law complained about paying for all these things she got my daughter when we never asked for it !& we paid for the baby shower SHE decided to decorate how SHE WANTED IT & complained to my sister in law she paid for al of it !!!! My husband is stil working on his work visa & it'her fault & she complains about money lol
@mariahabigael, its things other people gave me.. and things I bought myself.. anything they bought they can keep and shove it.. lol
@peanutincubator, omg I would return it to them and cut them off.. I feel your frustration with this 100% lol.. that's what I'm doing but not without a fight.. I'm not going to let them keep things that were rightfully mine..
good! then tell them to shove it up their asses too!! that is so freaking wrong! especially doing that crap now that you're 9 months pregnant
@belovedswty, Ugh that's horrible. If you have a key though, if definitely take what's yours. I don't care what's wrong with her, that's no excuse for her to be acting like this. Never let anyone make you feel like shit for standing up to yourself. No matter who that person is and no matter what issues that person may be going through. You need to do what's best for your children. She can take care of herself, ya know? My dad has cancer so trust me I understand, but at the end of the day.. She's a grown woman. She knows right from wrong
@aek91, Most likely what I'm going to do. They're not going anywhere near my child that's for damn sure, I really don't care what they say or what my fiancé says.
@belovedswty, was it stuff she bought or stuff other people got you? I would go off I would tell my husband he needs to do something about that or I'm leaving and I know that sounds harsh but if my husband cant stand up for me to his mother than he has lost my respect
I do have a key to her house lmao.. but shes going through all these medical issues with breast cancer and everyone makes me feel like shit for 'upsetting her' by asking for the things I got as gifts and for the things I bought for my son myself after selling my car.. she even switched the mattress on my daughters toddler bed with a super cheap one and put the nice expensive one I had bought my daughter in a crib she set up in her house.. I exploded to my husband but he doesn't want to upset get either..
@bgabby, You don't even know the half of it -___- 😔
I'd give them all their crap back with the receipt & not let them see my kid.
@mamamills, I'm contemplating just putting it all in a box and mailing it to them 😂 with a really snarky note attached to it
You should return it and say the items were gifts and that you don't have the receipts 😬
@mariahabigael, I'm glad you agree! Because all my fiancé is telling me is to "calm down" & "drop it" and it's making me even more angry lol. Having someone tell me theyd do the same is making me feel a lot better!
@belovedswty, I would EXPLODE if my mil did that to me. We need our own episode of True Life. "My MIL is a psychopath". Honestly if I were you, I'd wait until no one was home and take everything. That's terrible.
my mil kept everything my baby got at my babyshower.. we used to live with them and couldn't take all the baby stuff with us and now she refuses to give it to us saying that she needs baby stuff there for when her daughter visits with her baby.. its ridiculous
Girl I completely agree with you! If my MIL did that she'd be cut off !
I never wanted to be one of those people who hate their in laws but ...... It's not my fault , it's theirs! and my boyfriend is so sensitive about his mom because he knows how shitty of a person she is