question , my husband put me on bed rest due to our previous miscarriage. do you think that would help to avoid having a…

I had on 2 months ago n the doctor told me that when u having a miscarriage u can't stop it but u can rest in bed n put ur feet ups it will help stop bleeding good luck

My husband did the same thing to me I'm still not allowed to do anything he's wants me to quit my job. Just relax and enjoy it lol he's probably going to do everything for you

@mariahabigael, @mommy_of_3. maybe if i sleep n keep busy time will fly past .

@babyfeverrobledo, it is but it's worth the wait. I enjoy it every time now I'm patiently waiting 10 days for my u/s

I didn't actually hear mine till 12 weeks but I saw it and they said it's healthy at 8

You may not be able to hear it but they can see it on the ultrasound and tell that it's healthy

@mommy_of_3, sheesh thats long lol

@babyfeverrobledo, you can't hear the heart beat until about 10-12wks

@mariahabigael, yeahh maybe ill wait n just relax till then.

Ahh gotcha. My first was at 8 weeks. I know that seems so far away but I know people who have gotten ultrasounds at 6 weeks!

@mariahabigael, idk when to go get an appointment for the heart beat im only 4 weeks and 3 days and all they ever do is take urine from me

Good luck! I'm 23 weeks with a little boy and I still worry every single day. Just relax and do what's best for you :-)

After your first appointment if the heartbeat is normal , your risk of miscarriage goes down to 1 or 2%! That's what my dr said.

@mariahabigael, i think thats what ill do limit myself

@wrd2016, thanks i hope my baby stays

I miscarried in May and conceived again in July. I limited myself A LOT. I even quit my job when I was 19 weeks because I don't want extra stress. So far so good for me! Good luck! :-)

my doctor told me the same thing... ^^^ some times we just can't avoid it, our body has its own plans. good luck mama!!

I dnt want to discourage you.. But a lot of miscarriages (ive had 2) are beyond our control. They happen on a cellular level, nothing you do or dont do will really help avoid it (in the beginning if its going to happen its going to happen) and a lot of times if the baby is just not going to survive the body will eliminate it. bed rest and stuff like that happen when your at risk of your baby coming prematurely and the dr is trying to help avoid it (example:cervix opening)

@february2016, thanks , ill take my bed rest then lol

yes I think it would help but sometimes things just happen but prayers everything goes smoothly