Hey mommies.. I'm kinda upset and need some advice! My boyfriend and I are 2 hours away from each other in a long distant relationship. He tells me about girls hitting on him at school and stuff and they bothers me. I'm not in school yet so I pretty much just work and go home(I'm not the going out type). Anyways my boyfriend tells me he's going to some girls apartment to do homework and finish up on some stuff for his finals coming up.. And I hate it! I get SO mad! Like why do you have to go to her house? Or if he's at school he goes to other girls dorms to get help with homework.. Like wtf?? I swear it upsets me so much but I always feel like I'm overreacting if I say something. Am I wrong?
so just let him know how your feeling hes being honest with you be honest with him why you are up set tell him its not u i dont trust its the other girls
No he hasn't cheated before but I'm just really insecure and I know how nasty girls can be nowadays.. @mom13
hes being honest with you about it i dont see the big issue unless you have trust issues because hes cheated prior i mean would you rather he lied about where they were going to study?
I would be like uh hell no. I have all the trust in the world in my boyfriend but hes still not going to any girls house.
Not wrong at all!! I posted something similar to this a while back. My boyfriend said he was going to a girls apartment for an exam they needed to get done.. It made me VERY uncomfortable because I don't even know this girl whatsoever. You have every right to be upset, even if you do trust him! Let him know how you feel about it too!