He should be spending majority of his weekends with you.

@bets where is ur little boy

Sorry I'm late love but yeah you're getting to close for labor and if he don't wanna be there during that time he doesn't deserve to be there when you actually go @bets

ya he should be at home with you worried when labor will start

He needs to be spending time with u especially now before little one is born. It's one thing early on in pregnancy but as u get closer you need him and he should see that. I was alone with my first 4 at birth literally. My ex would be watching tv or on his phone or just standing there while the nurses helped me give birth. He was never involved with me or the kids in weekends. It really does get to u and u can only take so much. Hopefully u and him can talk and establish some kind of communication before things get worse.

@mrsschutte1323, I know I read your post /

if he doesn't wanna be there for you during pregnancy, he doesn't deserve to be there for you during birth. his fault. but if he's going out every single weekend and not even bothering to spend time with you, he's a selfish ass hole. sorry I speak my mind lol and that's what I think about this.

@dae, compromise. yea! that's the #1 thing in a relationship. Wish he would understand, I need him here at times. I'm scared to be here alone and suddenly go into labor and have no ride or anything.

@arijane316, I know but since he's the one working he always uses that excuse that he deserves his time blah blah. But if I end up going to the hospital in an ambulance for him not being here I will not even tell him. His fault.

You are not alone.

@february2016, Yes, just because he's not the pregnant one doesn't mean oh go have fun all weekend, I'm fine here at home alone my last 4 weeks of pregnancy.

I feel you im always home with the kids and he never is. and it's worse now that we had a stupid ass fight yesterday.

wow what deusch. sorry but that's just wrong and extremely selfish. he can have fun at home with his pregnant wife. and tea you could call him ,but for all he knows, by the time he gets home to take you to the hospital, you could already be at the hospital if you called an ambulance or if he were to already be home

All weekend is when you put your for down love I had to learn that to I let mines go chill with his friends because he's always under me so I really understand yall just have to compromise @bets

@dae, I know he needs his time. I tell him maybe one day of the weekend he can go out have drinks with his friends and enjoy himself so he's not bored here. but ALL weekend? :/

@mumof2, I wish it was that easy to make him listen -.-

Both ways because when the baby get here he gone be with yall more let him enjoy this time but also put your foot down for family time love @bets

No you're not wrong for being upset. he needs to be spending time with you not his buddies.

no!!!!!! he needs to bring his butt home