Is it wrong of me to play nice with my soon to be ex husband just so he doesn't expect me to file for full custody?
Background info on my situation I was married for two years to a narcissist who stayed home all day played video games left our son in a play pen till I or someone else yelled at him to get our son. He was supposed to be a stay at home dad while I worked two jobs (he did nothing around the house) I left him 3 months ago and I also left the state we lived in to go home with our son. He now doesn't pay me any child support never asks how our son is doing and when he came to visit saw him for two hours the whole week he was out here and was staying with his booty call (not sure what to call her). He also doesn't ever skype to see his son and even now still lies to my face.
He can get help through VA. He was in the army for 4 years and did 2 years in Iraq -.- I want him to have no say in any decisions I make because I know he'll just do the opposite out of spite
I don't want him to pay child support cause means he has rights to our kid. I don't want my sons speem donor in our lives ever again but he'll fight me every second if I take him to court for full custody. I just worry I'm bein selfish by trying to keep this boy out of my sons but he's not a good influence at all @jcblake11
I'd just play nice then. IF he were to ever take you to court, by that time they wouldn't even grant him any rights