One of the OBs just basically called me a whale! I mean not really but that's how I took it. I've gained 19 pounds so far and I'm 31 weeks. I didn't think that was too bad, but I guess it is.. 😩😩
@creeshona, exactly just don't worry about what assholes say they can't have babies so they wouldn't know how hard it is to not gain weight.
@creeshona, I never listen to them when it comes to that as long as there's no health problems and the pregnancy is healthy and baby is happy don't stress yourself over it sometimes you just can't help how much u gain
I guess if he would have explained it to me, I wouldn't have been upset. but he just nonchalantly said I'm putting on too much. @mommyof05
they say your only suppose to gain up to 25lbs but the more I gained the littler my baby was my first son was only 6lbs 7oz n I gained 100lbs with him and my youngest I gained 15lbs n he came out 9lbs 8oz
don't worry about that doctor girl you're doing good!
Right! Guess I'll treat my fat ass to some ice cream! lol That'll cheer me up. 😂 @mamaofangelbaby0610
my older brother learned to never call another pregnant woman fat the hard way. he used to tell me I looked like I was having triplets and it pissed me off so much that the last time he called me a pig I kicked him so hard in the balls that he backed down and never called me fat again.
I wonder why my doctor made my weight such a big deal. *shruggs* @mommyof05
you shouldn't feel bad you're feeding you and your baby I hate assholes who decide it's okay to make a woman feel fat that is not okay.
Well you guys made me feel a lot better. That doctor definitely hurt my feelings. @mamaofangelbaby0610 @ajm326 @aek91
I'm only 32 and have gained 46 lbs with my first pregnancy I gained 100
by the time I was 30 weeks in my first pregnancy I had gained about 50lbs I ended up gaining a total of 70lbs all together my first pregnancy.
I think that is great. I am 24 weeks and I have gained 15 pounds so I guess I am a whale as well. That dr is an ass.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
19 is nothing they say a healthy weight gain is 25-35 lbs you are doing great don't pay attention to them