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I lost my first child due to an encephalocele, which mean his brain was growing outside of his head. I had a medical…

I lost my first child due to an encephalocele, which mean his brain was growing outside of his head. I had a medical abortion. Some mommies have miscarriages so I know my situation is bad but I have to thank God I can carry my baby. I also thank him for allowing me to get pregnant again and have a healthy pregnancy so far

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stormsmommy

teeМама сына-младенца, беременна (17 нед.)

Of course!

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shakirars

shakira

@stormsmommy, thanks so much

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stormsmommy

teeМама сына-младенца, беременна (17 нед.)

This is the memory box my boyfriends mom bought for me. Just having his stuff in there and being able to smell his blankets from being born brings back the good few days I did have with him.

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stormsmommy

teeМама сына-младенца, беременна (17 нед.)

Me to. But yu have personal angel and I'm sure he isn't gonna let anything but the best happen to yu. If yu ever wanna talk about it yu can always message me and I can tell yu my story so yu know yur not alone.

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shakirars

shakira

i shed a tear when you said that @stormsmommy am so sorry we have to go through that.

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stormsmommy

teeМама сына-младенца, беременна (17 нед.)

I'm sorry for your lost. I lost my son this past June because I had severe preeclampisa. I was six months. It hard to go on everyday without him and carrying another baby but God blessed you with him for a reason. I sleep with one of my son blankets every night and I put his stuff from the hospital in a memory box. I visit his grave every Sunday & just sit and talk to him. Yur gonna be a great mom and I'm sure yur angel is watching over yu and yur new baby. 😇😊

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bri31212

BrittneyМама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

you could put his clothes in a shadow box with a cut out of his name and hang out on the wall.

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bri31212

BrittneyМама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

I made kinda like a shrine ig for her, she had a special place on our dresser just for her things.

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shakirars

shakira

I just holding on forever I guess.

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shakirars

shakira

I have his ashes and the clothing he had on I don't know what to do with them @bri31212

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bri31212

BrittneyМама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

you really should look them up Google Molly bears, they only ask for a $20 donation for materials. I think that would help you a lot, just a little piece of him that you could hold onto and tell your children about ❤ I'm glad I could shine some hope your way, we are truly blessed mamas. 😇

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shakirars

shakira

omg that's amazing i never heard of such a thing. you give me hope 😇

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ryennbanks2016.

KatelynВ ожидании первенца

he is so beautiful. 💕

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bri31212

BrittneyМама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

sorry so long lol

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bri31212

BrittneyМама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

it wasn't easy, I got pregnant with my third 3-4 months after my daughter and it was a tough pregnancy to go thru, he is not a happy healthy 13 month old and I am currently pregnant again. I just tried to keep in mind that my angel sent me these babies in her place to help me and keep me busy. I know I'll see her again someday, but for now I keep her tucked away in my heart. I also had a bear made for her from Molly bears, they made the bear weigh as much as she did when she was born, and this may sound odd but I dress the bear up for the seasons and include the bear in all of our family pictures so it's like she is right there with us. I also had my daughter cremated, so get ashes are always right were I can see them on my dresser in my bedroom. She will always be with us. another thing that helped me was telling my oldest daughter and my youngest about their sister, it's hard for them to understand but I want them to grow up knowing just how special she really was to all of us.

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shakirars

shakira

omg I've never meant someone who went through something similar how do you deal with going forward and being happy in another pregnancy @bri31212

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bri31212

BrittneyМама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

I went thru almost the SME thing with my second pregnancy, my daughter had anencephaly which means her brain and top part of her skull didn't form, I carried her as long as I could b4 I ended up giving birth at 35 weeks to an amazing blessing that was 3lbs 1oz and 14in long, she made it 10 1/2 hrs b4 she passed. I truly know how you feel. God must've knew that we were the right mommies to receive these amazing blessings, we are strong. God bless you and your growing family hun.

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shakirars

shakira

@jstncrazy2, 4 months

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shiloh2123

JessicaВ ожидании первенца

God bless💕

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jstncrazy2

Randi

Aw so tiny - so sad. How far along were you here @shakirars

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missing225user

missing225userМама дочки (9 лет), беременна (28 нед.)

Bless you! My condolences for your loss. Best wishes for your future!

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nikkisummers

NikkiМама дочки (2 года)

God bless you and your babies 🙏🏻💜

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missing77user

missing77userВ ожидании первенца

so sorry about your lost :(

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

This is my son Walter. Today is his birthday. He would have been five. This picture was taken when he was 16 days old.…

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