Day 4 .. I think I'm not enjoying being a mom.. Lots of responsibilities, no sleep, pain in different body parts.. I want to enjoy it and I hate to say it, but at this point I'm already exhausted and don't know how I'll manage to do all this for the next several months ☹
Just as everything else you have to learn what works for you and baby. You don't have to be an expert and its ok to get frustrated we all do. I'm about to message you!
@stacy_ its so hard! My mom lives nowhere near me either and I moved in with my hubby, a lot of changes but surprisingly the first time it was just hard but I dont remember having the baby blues I just felt soo weird and cried all the time about my "new life" time definitely makes it easier but its hell, I was all alone with this tiny life in my hands and I had no idea what to do, ugh I would cry along with my baby 😢 my bf worked a lot so he was like never there it sucked 😢
@alicia91, they definitely require a lot. I'm curious how moms with no help do it.. Heroes .. thank you .. Thank you a lot
@stacy_ awww thats good then, I started feeling weird the day I got home 😔 its very tiring but when theyre so little they require so much, it takes a few weeks to get them on a schedule but just keep at it and it really does get better momma 😢😙 if you ever wanna talk I'm here 💗
@alicia91, my parents are living on different country, there's only me and my husband (thanks he can stay with me for some time) .. 2 month sounds like a lot. :( I don't feel depressed yet, but exhausted and probably will feel depressed pretty soon ..
It takes time getting used to, I went through some horrible baby blues this last time and he's my second. It took me about 2 months to really start feeling like myself again but each day feel better than yesterday so hang in there, the first week for me was the hardest but just surround yourself with family, your mom if possible, your hubby, your baby, get at least a few hours of sleep and plenty of sunshine, Idk why going outside to take some deep breaths helped. Good luck momma💗
@stacy_ it is but its the most amazing rewarding job 😙